ooops, I see how my OP might seem uncaring of all the other children and familes devastated by this. That was not the case, merely trying to point out that these things are not always as far removed from us as we think and that this family might actually be linked to a MNer. Or that as mums we can relate to how this family feel
i speak as someone who has lost a child themselves and find i am very affected by any sad news about children
but of course, the whole thing is dreadfully sad