it's a great story - I can imagine her actually having quite some fun drawing up her will. so much thought went into it. it was on the radio earlier - and they said that although she said her husband's ashes had been scattered by the rose bush, they were actually found, still in their jar, in the cupboard under the stairs - they think she had forgotten to ever scatter them.
bad news for dds...if I live to be old and dds are financially secure, I think I'll have fun sharing it all out...