hope they find this girl soon

[2shoes]

and her mum

Really hope they are found safe and well.

I think this is going to have a sad ending. Poor woman,

I felt the same as you Kimi when I read about it. Was heartened that neighbours reported them missing (how many of us would notice if someone went AWOL?) but that it appears she has had enough.

It sounds worring if the mum didn't take any of her dd's walking aids with her

papers said they were searching local lakes

I saw this on the Missing programme this morning

I know the mum she was on a course I attended. Lovely lady.

There's a picture here of them

I read this today. Its very worrying and very sad. I also don;t think it will have a happy ending, especially as she left her daughters aids at home as well as the car.

oh god I hope it doesn't have a bad end

has there been any news?

they have just said on the news that 2 bodies have been found in a lake and they are believed to be that of the mother and daughter.
what an evil thing to do

cp is mentiond here
that is what I linked to on the other thread.

Fio of course I worry, what has that got to do with it?

How can you possibly judge 2shoes
You don't know anything about them

This is so awful, RIP

I was afraid this would be how it ended, so so sad.

well I can and I will

DH said it was murder but I do not think it is black and white.
The mother obviously had sever problems to do what she did.
There but for the grace of God, no one knows why a person would take their own life and that of their child.

If she did it to keep the child from the other parent that would be evil, but no one knows.

Kimi I agree with your DH.

But 2shoes, don't you see, you cannot judge without the facts
You can only prejudge
or misjudge

Which is no use to anyone apart from your own sense of detachment

Maybe the stress of looking after her daughter got too much, maybe her and her partner had split, maybe she was very depressed , maybe she had money worries, we just don't know

I think the amount of distress that must be experienced to decide that ending your life and the one of your child must be extream. I think that it is very natural to be chocked but I would not dare judging. No-one would do that sort of thing if everything in their life was fine. Very very .

maybe it was an accident
sadlt this isn't the first incident like this.
much is made of how the mother must have been depressed and so on.
but for me a child has died. a father will never hold his dd again.
so "if" the mother did kill her child I will judge.

( I ma in a better mood today as I have been to the dentist so not so wound up)