I am only pointing out that my information is direct from family and friends who live there, and yes they are scattered all over the country - including Matabeland North (which is where I'm guessing your sponsored child lives if they're getting stuff from Zambia), living everywhere from makeshift villages, to townships, up to reasonable areas of Harare and Gweru.
It's been 2yrs since I was last there, so yes things have changed but not dramatically so, food was scarce in the shops them, petrol was hard to get hold of, inflation wasn't any where as high as it is now, but as was enough for prices to be increasing on a daily basis, now prices increas on an hourly basis, but most Zimbabweans hardly notice this as most can't afford a loaf of bread of pint of milk anyhow.
I'm afraid you did rather hit a nerve when you commented on your foster kids father being killed, as I frequently wonder what happened to many of my good friends.
If you'd read my first post properly you'd see that I expected things to move forward very slowly - and in your first post you commented that people were "excited and full of hope" - of course they don't expect things to change very much in the immidiate future, they're not stupid - they know it takes time.
Oh - and with MDC having a majority in parliament the chances of the money filtering to Mugabes Cronies and allies is a lot slimmer than if they didn't have the majority.