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4000 award for hurt feelings over headscarf.......do you care what your hairdresser does with her hair or her beliefs?

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zippitippitoes · 18/06/2008 07:22

..............struck me as an odd story this

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oggsfrog · 18/06/2008 07:29

Ffs, bloody compensation culture...

zippitippitoes · 18/06/2008 07:33

...............yes there are a number of potential issues here

compnesation culture could be one of them

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theSuburbanDryad · 18/06/2008 08:08

Hmm - from my understanding of the story, the prospective employer was more concerned about her staff showing their hair off! It was nothing to do with racism - it's just that that particular job required her to have her hair on display.

I work in an optician's and also wear glasses myself. I don't think it's unreasonable that if I'm working in an optician's for a certain amount of time then I wear specs from that store! When you work in an industry like that you are a walking advert for them, much more so than if you work in, say, Tescos or wherever.

But for the salon owner to not explain this fully to the lady then i think that was being a bit underhand. And 4k is far too much IMO!

edam · 18/06/2008 08:13

Oh fgs, I heard about this earlier on and thought the complainant was barking. Injury to feelings, FFS. And where is the £4k coming from?

theSuburbanDryad · 18/06/2008 08:13

The interview was fifteen minutes long! I didn't realise this (read the same story in the Times yesterday!) and definitely think that £4k is too much!

Of course it's a real case of "She said", "No, I said" isn't it? Other than Miss Noah's word we don't have any proof that the salon owner was shocked to see her in a headscarf, or that she said she would be uncomfortable to have her around. It does seem like an odd thing to say.

I think that if those things happened, then Ms Noah might be entitled to an apology for her hurt feelings. But £4k - for 15 minutes' work! Not bad, eh?

Is she studying hair and beauty at college or something? Or was she hoping for a training position? Because if she's a qualified stylist then surely someone would have mentioned that the headscarf could be an issue before!!

zippitippitoes · 18/06/2008 08:17

i am hurt whenever i dont get a job and i do try to apply for ones that seem suited to my lifestyle and personal abilities

i am inclined to rule myself out of aareas where i would be an unlikely candidate

but maybe as an older person i should start targetting places where young people work like trendy nightclubs and stores and get them on age discrimination

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themildmanneredjanitor · 18/06/2008 08:17

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MummyDoIt · 18/06/2008 08:21

Oh for chrissake! This kind of think really, really annoys me. Some people have real problems, you know. I just want to shake people like that and tell them to get a grip! Jeez, I wish all I had to worry about were a headscarf and 15 minutes of hurt feelings.

zippitippitoes · 18/06/2008 08:24

the salon owner seems quite non plussed by this

i think there are sometimes reasons why yopu dont get jobs

sometimes you just arent going to be the right person

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StellaWasADiver · 18/06/2008 08:25

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sarah293 · 18/06/2008 08:37

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GooseyLoosey · 18/06/2008 08:41

I get hurt feelings every time I go to the hairdressers and they say "my you do have a lot of grey don't you?"

Perhaps I have missed an opportunity here under age discimination legislation and I should consider legal action.

sarah293 · 18/06/2008 08:44

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ChopsTheDuck · 18/06/2008 08:46

hairdressers wouldn't particularly bother me - it's hardly as if she would have cut her own hair in any case! I do think it was a bit of an oppurtunity to make a quick buck by sueing though.

Interesting about the opticians analogy though. I do like opticians who wear glasses though, I usually go on my own, and I think somebody who wears glasses themselves is far more likely to be helpful to me choosing. Plus I finally got the hang of contacts when an optician who wore them herself showed me how to use them.

zippitippitoes · 18/06/2008 08:47

i have been put off in hairdressers when they all seem to have awful dye jobs

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SSSandy2 · 18/06/2008 08:49

I always judge a new hairdresser partly on how their own hair looks so I think the salon owner has a point.

theSuburbanDryad · 18/06/2008 08:51

Chops - our optician is the only one who doesn't wear glasses!

oggsfrog · 18/06/2008 09:25
Spidermama · 18/06/2008 09:27

Oh I can't believe this! This sort of story does no-one any favours.

Twelvelegs · 18/06/2008 09:31

The salon should have just said they didn't want her because she was 'ugly' 'stupid' etc , this would have caused less fuss.
Gosh aren't we precious about fucking headscarves. Part iof being a hairdresser is showing hair, this girl wouldn't get a job in a lap dancing club either.... not racist just not complying with uniform.

Twelvelegs · 18/06/2008 09:32

OOOPPPs, I mean that if you want to protect your religious views don't do a job that requires you to remove the headscarf.

Twelvelegs · 18/06/2008 09:33

Riven , let us know how you get on.... I'm visably pregnant and so I'm going for a wrestling job I could really use a few grand!!

ChopsTheDuck · 18/06/2008 10:09

did anyone read about the sikh guy? [p[http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1026597/Police-force-blows-100-000-failed-search-helmet-c over-Sikh-officers-turban.html here]] I can empathise with his desire to wear the turban, etc. but the fact that he is now off wityh stress seems rather unecessary!

ChopsTheDuck · 18/06/2008 10:10

sorry

zippitippitoes · 18/06/2008 10:13

personal trainers who have weight issues might be another case

interestingly molly parkin is ion the news for being a dj

tho i think she is also a celebrity so that rather outwieghs the fact she is 74

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