New York Magazine: "The Secret Lives of Married Men"

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The secret lives of married men: The trouble with sex and marriage

This is a thought-provoking article which I rather enjoyed.

"When I told one married friend about my torment, he cut me off. "Everyone in our situation has had one or two episodes. Straying, wandering eye, a blowup. If you have a pulse."

When I decided to write about it, the novelist Frederic Tuten offered a warning about the sanctity in which Americans hold monogamy in marriage. "You can go against it in life, but don?t speak against it. It makes you a monster. Who speaks against it? And this creates a dichotomy, between what we live and what we profess."

you are bloody obsessed woman

Hehe, it is interesting how lots of the readers' comments just verbally abuse the man who wrote the article.

It is a rather fun article I think and a bit teasing, and from the ending, ("No thanks!") I think he is really just playing with ideas and trying to understand the human condition a little more deeply.

It is interesting though! And the Kinsey Institute sounds like a fun place to work!