whatever happened to the injection or implant for boys? does anyone know i m very inerested.
i have a 15 year old boy and if this was available i would be down the docs as we speak.
when my girl is 14 or 15 i will seriously consider taking her to the docs as well.
we have an open household and whilst on holiday this year and my lad was getting very friendly with a girl - apart from telling him he was gonna get arrested if he had sex - and we were in another country so my powers would be severely limited - he would probably sit in a french jail becuase we have no money to get legal advice, apart from telling him that protection isn't fool proof and std's can still occure, apart from telling him that when the girls dad shows up and wants to beat his face in how we wernt gonna stop him - i gave him a condom. with the brilliant advice of - "if i am a granny before the age of 35 am gonna kick him round half of france.
as a parent it is my responsability to keep my children safe. these conversations are strange in that we "give" teenagers under 16 credit and values and assumption of responsability - leaving parents with a great get out and the excuses to ignore its even happening.
when my children were 3 i stopped them running into the road. when my children are of an age they may be sexually active it is still my responsability to guide them as a parent and i hold strongly to that responsability.
we are catholic - regular church goers however catholicism does not define my views but rather is a way to express my faith ( another thread sometime) however my children go to a catholic school where my 15 yr old was telling me that sex ed class this week consisted of a video with an american women and the first thing she said is "no sex before marriage" he said the class groaned and completely switched off.
why a girl becomes pregnant at 14 is a big area and has many facets, howver i would be more proud of my daughter or son if at 14 knowing they were likely to have sex they either talked to me or even without my consent went to the doctors and asked for contraception.