The Guardian (surprise, surprise) had some ridiculous article a while back about managing the "sexual needs of NGO staff" or similar crap. Was either largely or entirely about men basically being unable to cope without sex
thus paying for sex from the local extremely disadvantaged population. Awful. IIRC it covered stuff like whether the organisation should pay for taxis for the men to visit prostitutes, and definitely nothing about not letting these revolting men work for them. Because it's accepted that this happens. All the time. Interesting that when it's the other way round it's newsworthy.
Diegetic If I were a handsome young guy stuck in that godawful place, I'd pick a plain British woman and win her over. Then propose. Anything to survive and get to the uk. Can't blame them.
Ugh, how horrible. Yeh just use people to get your own way. Yes, we can blame these men for seeing women as possessions to be used for their convenience (and vice versa, of course). Sick of people justifying appalling treatment of women because somehow the men's plight matters more.