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Although I am pretty outraged at the thinking around the 'shift parenting'. yes, another thing to feel criticised over - DP and I have run ourselves ragged to ensure that DS gets as much time as possible with us in our as a two-parents-woh family, shift parenting so that we can take it in turns to pick him up from school etc. There is more than one way of looking at this, and they could maybe start with the finances....house prices and stamp duty etc. It's all very well demanding that employers allow parents to work reduced hours, but if you can't manage on a reduced salary, that's not going to help.