Female Chauvinist Pigs by Ariel Levy
"In an ideal world, this book would be compulsory reading in schools, a desperately needed antidote to the notion, held by young (and old enough to know better) women, that being a feminist means growing your armpit hair and never having fun, and that to be a truly empowered modern woman today you need to look like a doll and be good at oral sex."
I'm also reading Striptease Culture which is along the same lines thoug more media based.