just been in omagh shopping today with the children and we were stopped by an armed police man.
he was very friendly re cars in front and checking id and he actually waved me on ( i suppose driving a car filled with children and teddy bears gave me a free pass )
but if he had have stopped me i would have burst into tears. i can't believe we have gone back to this. my eldest dc wanted to know why he was there, etc and i just couldn't answer him because of the lump in my throat
my earliest childhood memory is being in the car and being told that if daddy ever shouts "get down" i have to curl into a ball on the floor of the car (no car seats in those days) and that someone would come and get me (but i wasn't too worry if it wasn't daddy :( )
we can't bring our children up in this sort of society