I made it - hours of blood sweat and tears. Always washed fine in the machine on the wool cycle etc. This time however, I did it on the delicates/silk cycle and it's become harder and smaller - not all the way as it were but it just aint right. I have rewashed it on the wool cycle to see if that helped but alas no.
What can I do if anything and what was it about that cycle that's broken it