I posted a message about this a while back, can't seem to find it. Anyway, i got some really nice messages back, which really spurred me on, i was waiting for people to say i was disgusting etc., but felt so bad about my room i just needed to put it down here on mn
Well.........i have made abit of a start, i can't say it is finished, but i have done so much more than i usually would, as it depresses me so much i never used to know where to start. I started with clearing all the ironing as suggested, then went through wardrobes, not ideal but i put stuff we don't use all year round in boxes on top of the wardrobe, not pretty but makes it easier to now put stuff away rather than pile it in corners.
I have sorted paper work out that i have to keep in my room and shredded loads of stuff, sorted the airing cupboard out (in room) and gone through the drawers.
There is still alot to do but i don't have much time and i feel better already, this start really makes me want to keep going, thanks to everyone for being encouraging