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Tips for keeping new build house absolutely pristine

47 replies

spottycoat276 · 10/06/2026 08:43

Hello,

DH and I are about to purchase a new build house.

Before this the properties we’ve lived in together have been a rented house (pre-children) which was nice but a bit shabby, and then we bought a doer-upper flat which we rapidly realised was an absolute money pit for repairs, and given our life stage (small children) we didn’t have enough time or money to really get to grips with modernising it.

In both these properties I’d say we kept them clean to a decent enough standard, but never got invested in keeping them really lovely as we knew they weren’t going to be our long-term home.

When we move into the new build, I feel this is an opportunity for a fresh start and I’m looking for tips for how to keep it really clean and in good condition.

Ideas I’ve had so far:

• Spray shower glass after every single use to prevent build up of limescale (and product recommendation for this would be helpful!)
• Bleach toilets daily
• Consider investing in a robot vacuum to keep on top of things

Please send me your best tips for making a new home really nice (disclaimer: we have a baby and a toddler so any advice for keeping things manageable with young children also appreciated!)

OP posts:
EarlofShrewsbury · 29/08/2026 11:12

I'm a grown adult who grew up with a mother than wanted a pristine home.

Don't do that to your children. You can redecorate when they are older.

Mrscharlieeeee · 29/08/2026 17:59

you need a squeegee for the shower and shower sprays do bigger all, something like viakal is better.

Wiping down all your woodwork weekly and ensuring your bathrooms are well ventilated is a must. I clean my house thoroughly from top to bottom every week. If you want it to stay pristine then that’s what it takes. Also, having a place for everything and putting things away.

TheSandgroper · 30/08/2026 13:42

I’m Australian so I’m spoilt with verandahs but somewhere to dry things outside. I have a horror of damp things so my mop lives outside, my bath towels go outside to dry, my washing machine door and drawer are always open a crack.

Air beds every day by pulling back the covers. Prop pillows up on end to allow air into them, too. I put mine outside any time it’s a dry breeze.

It’s easy to forget that bath mats need airing just as much as towels do.

I scrub my bath using clothes detergent in a bucket with a few inches of water. A big sponge, swish around lavishly, swish around again and the grime just slides off. It works on walls, too. And it’s cheap.

Just remember, methylated spirits and cheap vinegar are mould killers. I keep a spray bottle on the towel rack of each and spray regularly in winter. Bleach bleaches it (whitens it) but doesn’t kill it.

DrawerKnows · 30/08/2026 14:24

Not exactly related but I use a dehumidifier to help dry washing (we don't have a tumble drier)

Also, don't feel you have to keep every one of DS/DD's scribbles/"works of art"!

And totally agree with the shoes off at the door policy. I wish I'd enacted this policy.

napody · 30/08/2026 14:32

FragrantPalms · 10/06/2026 09:24

Give your children away! Honestly, OP, there's no point in trying to hold yourself to some ridiculous standard of cleanliness with a baby and a toddler. I agree with @Cioccoholic.

They are correct, but "Bring them up as Gamers, not Creative types" to avoid mess is one of the bleakest things I've heard. People do that- keeping a tidy house by keeping toddlers on tablets. It's why many primary school kids have terrible motor skills and no clue how to use scissors.

Greenjersey · 30/08/2026 14:46

Before you move do a massive declutter. Don't take anything to the new house that isn't useful or beautiful, nothing 'just in case', storage often isn't brilliant in new builds so you'll only have to find room for it all.
That said, I've stuff in my cellar and attic that moved to this house with us and I've no idea what exactly is in those boxes! Don't be me.

AlexanderArnold · 30/08/2026 14:52

I felt the same when we had an extension built. The only thing I'd add is watch out for spaces behind furniture and in between soda cushions... All kinds of grim...

LittleOrangeEgg · 30/08/2026 14:55

I know it’s an old thread, but if you can afford it get a water softener - means you never have limescale build up in your shower, toilet or appliances

EarringsandLipstick · 30/08/2026 15:25

JillThePlantKiller · 10/06/2026 11:06

This is counter intuitive but don’t expect your house to look perfect all the time. Housework happens in cycles. The time that the floors are gleaming, the ironing isn’t done. The day the laundry is folded, and put away, the windows might be due a wash, etc.

What you want is that you’re about 10-30 mins to guest ready, and that when you’re sick, the house only gets about an hour or two out of whack.

It’s important to understand the difference, because you can’t live (particularly as a family) in a state of instagrammable perfection, and if that’s your expectation, you might get worn down and give up altogether.

The secret is to think small: do the stuff, the maintenance tasks daily. Don’t let small jobs turn into big jobs. It seems like it would be more efficient to wash dishes once a week but it definitely isn’t 🤣. Keep the amount of possessions small ( decluttered ) but do that in small increments - eg weed out clothes when you’re folding laundry, and check what hasn’t been worn when you’re putting it away. Look at toys and books when you’re tidying. Dropping off a half bag to a charity shop is easy, and probably won’t be turned away. Turning up with 6 bags and they may not have the space to take them.

Doing a small tidy up everyday helps you keep track of so many aspects of your home. You’re constantly handling stuff, assessing your storage, evaluating, seeing what needs tending (while it is still small).

I love this advice!

IckyIck · 30/08/2026 15:43

If you have young children, lots of young children's stuff in the living room happens. Your house is theirs too, don't get too stressed about it. The early years soon pass, and if you teach them to put things away, you should be ok.

Cotopaxi · 30/08/2026 15:58

How to keep it pristine?

Don't move in. 😉😂

TheBirdintheCave · 31/08/2026 08:12

spottycoat276 · 10/06/2026 10:22

Thank you everyone for the replies!! I will take the time to read them all in detail later but some really helpful points about shoes off, storage solutions, keeping food to kitchen/dining area, also the point about cleaning the dishwasher and washing machine which I admit I don’t regularly do atm.

Sorry the word “pristine” in the title was not quite the right choice - I know it won’t be possible to keep it like a show home all the time with young children. I think what I’m trying to say is I want this house to feel like a really lovely proper long-term home, so I want to keep it as nice as I can within reason with small children!

I’ve never lived in a new build before so I kind of feel a sense of responsibility to look after it well, because we’ll know that any grime that builds up is ours rather than somewhere that’s had generations of previous inhabitants!!

I get this. We lived in rented flats for a few years before buying our white box new build. We’re six years in now and it still looks excellent. The hob, in particular, looks basically brand new as we clean it every night.

We also have two kids (5 and 2) and our rules are:

No shoes inside
PlayDoh has to happen in the kitchen at the tuff tray
Food and drink only at the dining table
Tidy toys away when done playing
Put your own clothes in the wash basket (even 2 does this)

We also don’t have a lot of stuff which makes storage and cleaning easier. I sell the kids old clothes on Vinted as soon as they grow out of them and toys they are too old for are passed on to make room for new ones.

I agree on hard floors downstairs. We have carpet (living dining room) and it’s a pain having to sweep/hoover all the crumbs the kids drop after their meals 🫠

confusedlots · 31/08/2026 08:19

I saw something on a cleaning thread on Instagram lately that said if you see a job that needs doing and it takes less than 2 minutes, do it then and don’t leave it to later. I’ve been trying to implement it and it is making a difference to our chaotic household! So if I’m in the utility room and see a few bits that need to go in the bin I just do it then and don’t leave it until later when I had planned to do a more intense clean of the utility room.

It sounds simple, but it’s amazing how much of a difference just doing those little jobs makes, it all adds up!

WindsorGreatPark · 31/08/2026 08:28

LittleOrangeEgg · 30/08/2026 14:55

I know it’s an old thread, but if you can afford it get a water softener - means you never have limescale build up in your shower, toilet or appliances

If only that was true! We have one and still get scale.

Screamingabdabz · 31/08/2026 08:34

Is your DH as invested in this cleaning regime? I bet he isn’t. Another depressing ‘cleaning toilets is women’s work’ thread. Be careful what you are role modelling to your children.

Greyover · 31/08/2026 08:35

Please don't use bleach, ever. It's so damaging to the environment.

Having lived in several new builds I think you need to be prepared for the snagging list that comes with them once you move in. You're not going to have a pristine home at first as there will be a number of things for the builders to put right. I'd hate for this to come as a suprise and spoil things.

CurlewKate · 31/08/2026 08:36

Don’t live in it!!

IckyIck · 31/08/2026 09:49

@Greyover , lots of things are damaging to the environment. I try not to use them too much but I have to do things like washing up, wash clothes, wash floors, clean the bathroom and wash my hair. If I can, and if I find it effective, I use an environmentally-friendly product.
A little bleach goes a very long way, and the thing to remember is that it is a bleach not a cleaning product.

TidyHome · 31/08/2026 14:37

The biggest game changer for us was keeping a small cleaning caddy on each floor with everything you need right there - spray, microfibre, toilet brush. When the supplies are in the room you actually wipe things down on the spot rather than thinking "I'll do it later." With young children that later never comes!

Also think about storage before you move in and label where everything lives from day one. Kids adapt surprisingly quickly when there's a clear system from the start.

mumsberkshire54 · 01/09/2026 22:35

Skip the daily chemical sprays and just squeegee the shower glass after use, put high-pile mats at all doors to catch toddler dirt, and get that robot vacuum to run daily while you are out.
Focusing on quick daily prevention systems rather than heavy scrubbing is the standard MCH approach to keeping a new build fresh without burning out.

CatherineHoward17 · 01/09/2026 23:15

TheeNotoriousPIG · 10/06/2026 09:40

Glaco (a rain-repellant liquid that is usually used for windscreens) is said to be good for keeping shower screens clean.

Minimise ornaments, as they collect dust, and get rid of carpets. It's a lot quicker and easier to clean mess off wooden flooring. If you go for vacuum cleaners, have one for upstairs and one for downstairs. Set them both on a timer before the novelty of them wears off and you forget.

Maximise storage, and get rid of anything that you do not need.

Employ a window-cleaner, and possibly a cleaner, to help with keeping on top of things, if that's an affordable option.

Wipe down surfaces (and if your vacuum mops, set that to go before bed; I love coming downstairs to a clean floor, and it has time to dry before getting covered in dog prints) last thing at night.

Keep the windows open as much as you can. If you have an issue with flies, fitted fly screens are a good investment.

And... good luck with keeping a house pristine when you have children!

Don't use Glaco on your showerscreen! It's designed to be used on the outside of cars, not in a confined space like a bathroom where you will inevitably inhale the fumes. It can cause serious eye damage, drowsiness and dizziness. In addition, it's a "forever chemical", which are now known to present in almost river in the UK and are virtually impossible to remove. Forever chemical have been implicated in various endocrine disorders, high blood pressure and cholesterol, and certain cancers

Seasidewalker · 07/09/2026 20:20

confusedlots · 31/08/2026 08:19

I saw something on a cleaning thread on Instagram lately that said if you see a job that needs doing and it takes less than 2 minutes, do it then and don’t leave it to later. I’ve been trying to implement it and it is making a difference to our chaotic household! So if I’m in the utility room and see a few bits that need to go in the bin I just do it then and don’t leave it until later when I had planned to do a more intense clean of the utility room.

It sounds simple, but it’s amazing how much of a difference just doing those little jobs makes, it all adds up!

Absolutely this!

My niece stayed with us for a couple of weeks recently, she has two small children who were with her and at home she works.

She's a "clean as you go" kind of woman. I tend to leave jobs until I've got time which of course never comes and they become "big tasks" which i hate. She does a bit of everything as she goes, so if she's waiting for something whilst cooking she cleans a fridge shelf, rather than waiting to clean the whole fridge. The house was cleaner when she left than when she arrived (it wasn't skanky before!) and her home is clean but welcoming as cleaning isn't a big deal.

I'm trying to do this too, having cloths and cleaning kits in various rooms (bathrooms etc) really helps.

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