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🍁 Flylady November — Slow Days, Warm Drinks, and Shiny Sinks (title edited by MNHQ at request of OP)

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Alwayslearning25 · 31/10/2025 20:35

Well, here we are — darker evenings, the smell of woodsmoke in the air, and that slightly panicky feeling that Christmas is somehow next month. But fear not, lovely Flyladies — we’ve got this (mostly).

This thread is our little corner of calm amongst the chaos — a place to cheer each other on, share small wins, and occasionally moan about the state of the laundry mountain. Whether you’re shining your sink for the first time or just trying to keep the kitchen table visible for more than an hour, you’re in good company.

The Flylady system is all about baby steps — 15 minutes at a time, routines that mostly stick, and being kind to ourselves when life happens (because it always does). Pop in, post your list, or just lurk with a cuppa — everyone’s welcome.
Let’s make November about cosy corners, tidy-ish rooms, and gentle progress — before December sweeps in with tinsel and mince pies.
Kettle’s on. Who’s flying today? ☕🕯️🧺

This is a long running thread, but we are a friendly bunch and all are welcome to join in.
Do NOT sign up for the Flylady emails - it's an excessive amount sent every day.
There are Baby Steps for starting out, add one thing at a time to start good habits and routines.
There are 5 zones that we will rotate through, don't worry about finishing it all this month, it'll come around again next month! Flylady is NOT about perfectionism!
Zones:

  1. Entryway, porch and dining room
  2. Kitchen
  3. Bathroom and one other room
  4. Master bedroom
  5. Living room
Daily missions: each day of the week has a different mission.
  • Monday: Home Blessing (or as we call it, home bleugh)
  • Tuesday: plan & play
  • Wednesday: anti-procrastination
  • Thursday: errand day
  • Friday: clean car & purse out a week. It's also date night (with your significant other, or friends, or yourself!)
  • Saturday: family fun day
  • Sunday: renew your spirit
Common acronyms we use:
  • LOL: load of laundry (washing is certainly NOT funny!)
  • DW: dishwasher, we are not rotating wives by any means, although an extra pair of hands could come in handy sometimes 😆
  • LMS: lose/lost my shit
  • DNLMS: did not lose my shit
There are more, feel free to ask us to explain something. I'll try to update links every day, although if you can, it's worth downloading the app, you can even have it send you notifications (although I only have it for when the zones change). You can also modify the tick lists to suit your home & lifestyle. Links are below 👇 if I happen to not add links in time, they do update at midnight for you. Well, they should but there is some technical difficulties on their end while they update the website. You can also check out the Facebook page Zones: https://www.flylady.net/d/zones/ Baby Steps: https://www.flylady.net/d/getting-started/31-beginner-babysteps/

The Current FLY Zone | FlyLady.net

https://www.flylady.net/d/zones/

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Alwayslearning25 · 30/11/2025 06:52

Hi,. just popping in to say my DD has had a couple of playdates recently and their houses were immaculate. i can't imagine getting our house like it. Main difference is their 7 year olds are the youngest. Weirdly though, both friends had very similar downstairs, style etc. down to recent kitchen renovations/ extensions which made the downstairs a loop.

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HazelNuttyElf · 30/11/2025 15:30

Alwayslearning25 it's so much easier to keep the house clean & tidy as they get older. Comparison is the thief of joy, don't let it get to you!
Flylady will help you get those routines into place, making it so you won't have to take much time to tidy up before guests, etc. It just takes time to build up those routines.

HazelNuttyElf · 30/11/2025 15:34

We got snow! I woke up this morning to white on everything outside, it's so calming and magical.
Well, that is until I think about DD driving in it to join us for a "Thanksgiving dinner". I haven't heard from her yet on what time she's coming or if she's even still coming!

EnchantingDecoration · 30/11/2025 16:34

Hi all, tomorrow is the 1st Dec. If anyone else wants to pick up posting links you are welcome, if not I'll set up a new thread tonight. Might be a bit hit and miss through December 🎄

HazelNuttyElf · 30/11/2025 16:53

Snow!

ED I would volunteer, but I know December is going to be crazy for me, I'm sorry!

🍁 Flylady November — Slow Days, Warm Drinks, and Shiny Sinks (title edited by MNHQ at request of OP)
EnchantingDecoration · 30/11/2025 18:07

Crazy for me too so I can’t promise much but will do my best. Your snow looks fabulous!

Alwayslearning25 · 30/11/2025 19:41

Looks beautiful @HazelNuttyElf we had a snow shower a couple of weeks ago with big flakes but it didn't last long or settle. Which is probably just as well as noone knows how to drive on the snow here, but they try!

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EnchantingDecoration · 30/11/2025 23:06

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New thread

www.mumsnet.com/talk/housekeeping/5452781-december-flylady-fledglings-fluttering-towards-the-festive-season

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