I'm not bragging. But I think I'm lucky. When our first son was born I struggled massively. My husband has always been amazing with chores and always does 70% of the cleaning and the cooking( he has a cleaning rota) so he decided he would go part time to be the main carer of our child. I work full time as i struggled being at home all day. I do chores on a Saturday and washing so we can have sundays together. We have a second boy on the way and he's started a flexi work time so ge can drop our son off to school so I can have a bit chilled morning before work. I do the dishes and bath time so he can chill for a bit. By 7 evrything is done( he hoovers, dishes away, toys tidy, packed lunch done etc don't mean to brag it's just to show what some husbands can be like.