LUDA I know how you feel. DH and me will have been married 13 years in January and an item for 17 in June. It's just wierd really, I love him to bits and can't live without him but....ah, y'know.
We've been through a lot. The after effects of my childhood, his previous marriage, his work situation, my MS, the dreaded overdraft, the arrival of the Ed. We just spend so much time on the hum drum stuff we forget Grouchy and DH as a couple.
I always think of the opening line to Snow Patrol's Chasing Cars. Makes me blub but gets me through it
Sorry if I've got the wrong end of the stick, being nosey and beating around the wrong bush with that and sorry for TMI