Hi EHM. I hope Ellie sleeps okay tonight. Just to mention, normally on MN, someone puts gaps between their e-mail address so that scanners working cyberspace (does my lack of knowledge of anything technical show clearly yet? ) i.e. susan a jones at bt dot something or other. Also, it's important that someone pretending to be your MNer friend doesn't e-mail you and give false details, so whenever I've e-mailed someone, I've used the thread to say "I've just e-mailed you" to prove that I am the person e-mailing. Sorry that's long winded!
Jelley You didn't worry me, honestly. I will take you up on the CAT offer as then we'll be able to talk off board. Sorry to hear about the back pain. I hope it can be relieved for you soon.
It's a funny thing, and I don't want to generalise hugely or go into detail, but I think there are a few of us on this thread who have similar problems/fears/hopes for the future etc. Perhaps that's why we're a nice, understanding bunch!