am i lazy or just mormal?

[daisydee43]

work 3 full days week
dont ever seem to sit down and relax yet dh thinks im lazy when it comes to housework

i do the floors and surfaces in every room once a week (might not always mop but definately hoover)
i clean the kitchen every day and deep clean once a week
bathroom deep cleaned once a week
towels changed once a week throughout
i do a declutter quite frequently as tidying is more important to me than cleaning and all rooms are dressed nice
anything else gets done when it gets bad ie skirting, windows, bed sheets, oven, fridge, hoovering sofa and underneath, cleaning 'unseen' areas

is this below normal?

LTB

What do you mean - you don't want to 'turn out like them'? You are like them, except your DH doesn't appreciate it (no idea if your Dad did or not?). He's treating you like crap - why why why are you putting up with this? Yes your parents live like this, but you are a grown adult who can see that it's just not reasonable to live like a 1950's wife in 2014 and work!