I am expecting dc3 and dh has finally realised that I am really struggling and started to help more around the house. Today he expressed surprise at me doing two loads of laundry in one day, and that there was always laundry needing washing or drying or sorting. Part of me is thinking 'ha! Now he knows what I actually do!' and the other part is worrying that maybe I'm doing it all wrong somehow. So how much laundry is normal for a family of four?