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October-fest: a fledgling (at best) might spruce up its nest (then take a rest?).

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strictlycaballine · 26/09/2012 10:37

Welcome to the October 2012 Fledgling Flyers thread. Park your mops, buckets, microfibre cloths, golden dusters and spiders-web-removing-implements here!

A huge "thank you" to Whoknows and Pushme for leading us throughout September!! (Hope you are recovering well Whoknows - take it steady!)

If your house is a mess and you are strugging with C.H.A.O.S. (can't have anyone over syndrome) and S.T.U.F.F. (something that undermines family fun) then this is the thread where we (loosely) follow the step-by-step Flylady housekeeping system (in our own, unique, relaxed style) with lots of chat, support and Wine along the way.

This little-and-often system is designed so that you can follow a series of steps and routines each day (which gradually become second nature) in weekly designated zones of the house; defining and minimising housework - which in theory should leave you with more time to do other more interesting things instead! At the same time it is intended to reduce that panicky "rabbit in headlights" feeling when you are overwhelmed and everything needs doing all at once. No problem if you miss a day or two; just jump right back in and it will all come around next month again anyway!

We advise not signing up to receive the Flylady e-mails as you will be inundated! All the information you need will be linked here on a daily basis.

From the first of the month, we will be following Flylady's steps and routines using a three-pronged approach (dependent on the stage everyone is at):

  • start or repeat baby steps
  • repeat baby steps + do 15 mins a day decluttering in the current zone
  • reinforce babysteps and do daily missions if you have finished decluttering.

[And if you are really enthusiastic and have finished decluttering - you can go on to detailed deep cleaning in each zone.]

More info here on getting started, and the flylady system here and here Don't be put off by the barf-tastic language of the site - the underlying system is sound.

All welcome!!

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MaggieMcVitie · 03/10/2012 22:00

Not a great deal of flying done, but kitchen is still fairly tidy and am keeping on top of the washing... So at least I'm maintaining and not going backwards.

Ta da's are minimal:
Quick tidy of bedrooms
2 loads of washing dried (not yet put awayBlush)
Dc's, dog and cat fed.

Supply tomorrow am - bathrooms deep clean tomorrow pm (my least favourite job in the world)
Off to bed now, although DS2 didn't feel well earlier and was a particularly funny colour - dosed up with calpol now, but we'll see what the night brings...

BlueEyeshadow · 03/10/2012 22:08

Evening all!

Today has been odd. I've got a mild sinussy thing so my ears feel all funny, and had some unexpected sad news this morning, so mildly shellshocked all day. Still managed some work as well as house bleugh, sewing and talking to a friend I'd been meaning to ring for far too long. Have also been to Zumba tonight.

I'm off down to London tomorrow evening for a conference on Friday - much excitement - so I'm supposed to be writing lists... Got to get off the computer!

Big waves to everyone and hugs to Trazzle.

deleted203 · 03/10/2012 22:37

Trazzle Much love to you and your family. Keeping you in my thoughts.

Ta da!

15 min de-clutter
Took 2 more binliners to charity shop
Took daughter's passport app. to post office - rejected Blush
Ordered carpet for spare room - coming Friday!
Painted corner unit in spare room

Shiny sink!

House is starting to look tidier (in bits). Dining room much better - entrance hall still pretty awful! I'll keep decluttering.

Scruffybear · 04/10/2012 00:17

Marking my place, having fallen under off the flying wagon again. I remain hopeful that I might yet make a difference here before the year is out, although noting that this month is paper clutter month I couldn't help but snort. feeling defeated already Wine

CarpeJugulum · 04/10/2012 07:11

Morning.

DS is night waking again. Think it's a combination of cold, teeth and growing. But DH is on call (IT not medicine) so can't deal with him as his phone can go off at anytime. This morning is NOT a good morning. Gave up at 4.30am and just slept with him.

So, plan for today is...
Morning routine
WAH job
Toddler group (plus pick up dinner from butcher)
Home for nap
Die in the corner.

Roll on Friday when I am doing alcohol and no DS supervision!

MercuryRising · 04/10/2012 07:26

Morning. Sorry I went awol yesterday I helped in DCs school all day and by the time we got home I only did the bare minimum and flopped. But today I will do better, including working my way through the ironing mountain Hmm dizzy well done on 11000 steps that is fantastic. I want to lose half a stone by the end of the month when we are off on our first family holiday abroad so I think inspired by your efforts I will fish my pedometer out from the depths of the junk drawer. Have a good day everyone Grin

strictlycaballine · 04/10/2012 08:38

[puts hand in front of face to protect eyes from gleam of Issima's sink]

[Falls on Carpe's extra-strong brew]

Morning everyone. A real taste of winter here today; dark, dank and cold. Lighting in this house hasn't changed much since Edwardian times so it's traditionally around about now I regret not doing more decluttering/deep cleaning in the light, long days of summer. (Same goes for body clutter!) DD feeling below par but no temp so have sent her in as per school instructions.

Sorry you had such an awful night's sleep Carpe Hope you (and your ds) get through the day OK x

Great to see you Scruffy Grin Don't worry, I'm drowning in paper clutter too. (Every surface in home office covered in teetering piles of the stuff.) We can do it, 15 mins by 15 mins!!

Great the system is starting to work for you Sowornout - take it slowly though Wink but not as slowly as me who writes about decluttering all the time but doesn't actually do much of it

Having been out for most of week, need to make real progress in the house today.

To do:
finish morning routine inc wm, dw, s&s done
rabbits done
put away ironing done by lovely fortnightly ironing lady (may a thousand blessings and flower garlands fall gently on her head)
make veggie casserole stew thing that I didn't make yesterday, or day before Blush (meal planning has gone a bit wonky this week - need to readjust to new circs)
prep online shopping for returns
dye Barnet Fair (today or tomorrow)
clean and soak in Dettol all brushes/combs etc
tablecloth wash
clean laundry to office/collect used office laundry
prep two canvases with gesso, prep one of them with background paint
transfer drawing etc etc
one hour paper clutter
two hours boudoir
send two e-mails
phone calls (appt)
school run/tennis run
afternoon/evening routine

Have a productive day everyone! Vigorous wing flaps to one and all!

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MaggieMcVitie · 04/10/2012 08:58

DS2 off school as suspected so no work for me today as DH is still out searching Sad

Still, it gives me a day to really flap my wings...

To do then;
Get to bottom of washing and put it all away
Sort out summer clothes and pack away
Finish Zone 1
BATHROOMS
Hoover through
Online banking

Whilst simultaneously dosing out calpol.....

[Grabs brew and IV kit from Carpe gratefully]

Mymumsdaughter · 04/10/2012 09:21

Morning all not much too report here cept full of cold

BitchyDragons · 04/10/2012 09:26

Today is major crisis clean day. I had planned to blitz the house in peace and quiet as people would be out. turns out people took the day off. I am already feeling stabby. Very very stabby. Angry

strictlycaballine · 04/10/2012 09:32

[quakes at thought of Bitchy's list]

Strapping on the pedometer here too Mercury!

[hot lemon drink and handkerchiefs to Mymums]

Oh dear maggie it's not looking very positive is it. Great your dh and others haven't given up looking though Sad

Rabbits took one look at drizzle outside this morning and promptly turned around and went back to bed. I desperately want to follow suit (warm piles of hay look quite inviting actually, but must get on ...

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MaggieMcVitie · 04/10/2012 10:04

SC - there's still hope.

strictlycaballine · 04/10/2012 10:41

Absolutely there is Maggie (sorry - did NOT mean to imply otherwise) just more awful as time goes on. Poor parents ...

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strictlycaballine · 04/10/2012 10:55

Blue sorry - tired today - missing things ... meant to say earlier that I hope you are feeling better and I'm sorry you've had bad newsx

Have a safe trip to London ...

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Mymumsdaughter · 04/10/2012 11:42

Thanks strictly bitchy waiting with anticipation for your list - I love ticking off what I've done on your list If I manage 5 I have a sense of achievement!

BitchyDragons · 04/10/2012 11:56

taking a laid back approach to starting the day it will get more crazy but

ta da
collect all laundry
collect all washing up
long hot shower - seems madness but have managed to delegate it being steam cleaned and wanted all messy messy stuff (deep hair conditioning treatment stuff etc) done first.
3rd load of washing is on
ds' kit has been sorted through
sort bathroom out for steam cleaning. bigger job then you would think
Take box of stuff and chuck all over lounge floor...

My next job is to sort and deal with mess on lounge floor...

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laurenamium · 04/10/2012 13:10

Afternoon all! It's took me 40 minutes but DD and mindee are both asleep Grin so ill have 20 minutes quiet time until they run riot again!

To do:
School run
Visit friend
Routines
Date night Grin

BB tomorrow!

feetheart · 04/10/2012 13:15

Oh dear, oh dear, oh dear, oh dear.
I have been accepted to run in the Brighton Marathon in April for Winston's Wish. It seemed like a good idea at the time (possibly because I didn't think I'd get a place!) but the lady has just rung and said I'm in ShockShockShock
I haven't done more than amble for about 2 months.

REALLY need to get house sorted by Christmas now as I will need the time to run :)

Need a stiff drink now - and wonder when I break it to DH :)

laurenamium · 04/10/2012 13:17

Date nights cancelled...paperwork instead

swanthingafteranother · 04/10/2012 13:32

ellie it is bad enough attending the Open Days, let alone hosting them! Lucozade and Vim to you. I've got yet another Open Day this evening.
SC it is TEE-SHOCK [and I can't remember how you write the Irish version Blush so that will have to suffice

done
taken ds2 to dyslexia tutor to be assessed - she thinks he may need a different sort of help, but anyway, a lovely walk by the river was had in the meantime...and more investigations into dd's bus route to Convent secondary school...Hmm Feeling less and less up to challenge of driving again Sad

Still completely knackered and no idea what is for supper...Pork fillet and fried potatoes maybe [searches freezer] The fridge is empty again [sigh]

[SEN diversion
investigated the world of Statementing again...I am just completely bewildered by it all. It must be easier to homeschool than to understand it all Sad People keep telling me different things and in the meantime what ds2 really needs is me to spend time working with him, not filling in officious forms... I did some "work" with him last night, and very struck by how completely impatient he now is with any kind of written work/grammar/spelling...he just isn't interested in any of it.So need to find the KEY to what does interest him. Perhaps....

todo
Guides tonight
Open Evening
Ds1 has to research some picture by Cranach [oh dear]
cat food
find credit card

swanthingafteranother · 04/10/2012 13:35

Feet well done! April is a long way off. Plenty of time.

laurenamium · 04/10/2012 13:41

I've just had confirmation that my step dad who is also my landlord will be coming here to look after DD tomorrow night whilst I go to a pampered chef party...in light of this and date night being cancelled I have a new to do list Grin

Clean kitchen floor
Tidy playroom
Front room hotspot
Clean bathroom

Argh!

dizzyday07 · 04/10/2012 13:53

issimma - I'm like you. I can be tidy and organised but cleaning just bores me rigid! But that curry loves great so will go on next week menu. Thanks

strictlycaballine · 04/10/2012 14:13

Swan Lucas the elder or younger? Wink pretending didn't just look that up (couldn't find in GoogleArt for some reason but see here (seven rows down on right)
Thanks, got the 'tee' bit right, wasn't sure if it was more of a 'shock' or a 'shook' so that's useful for next time Smile!!
Sorry you are going through Statementing nightmares ..must be so frustrating

Good luck with your list Lauren but sorry date night cancelled - that's disappointing for all of us nosy parkers interested in blossoming romance

yeah Feet loads of time - you'll be great!! Smile

Issima RAdio 4 podcasts (or whatever you fancy) as recommended by Linzer on this thread a while back) have been my saviour when it comes to surviving tedium of cleaning. Set timed programme to set timed task etc. Not quite set up as I'd like yet, but getting there. Thanks for recipe - tis definitely the weather for that sort of dish - cooking something similar here now as it happens

Back post school/tennis/hwk/supper/bath/bed shannigans

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