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October-fest: a fledgling (at best) might spruce up its nest (then take a rest?).

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strictlycaballine · 26/09/2012 10:37

Welcome to the October 2012 Fledgling Flyers thread. Park your mops, buckets, microfibre cloths, golden dusters and spiders-web-removing-implements here!

A huge "thank you" to Whoknows and Pushme for leading us throughout September!! (Hope you are recovering well Whoknows - take it steady!)

If your house is a mess and you are strugging with C.H.A.O.S. (can't have anyone over syndrome) and S.T.U.F.F. (something that undermines family fun) then this is the thread where we (loosely) follow the step-by-step Flylady housekeeping system (in our own, unique, relaxed style) with lots of chat, support and Wine along the way.

This little-and-often system is designed so that you can follow a series of steps and routines each day (which gradually become second nature) in weekly designated zones of the house; defining and minimising housework - which in theory should leave you with more time to do other more interesting things instead! At the same time it is intended to reduce that panicky "rabbit in headlights" feeling when you are overwhelmed and everything needs doing all at once. No problem if you miss a day or two; just jump right back in and it will all come around next month again anyway!

We advise not signing up to receive the Flylady e-mails as you will be inundated! All the information you need will be linked here on a daily basis.

From the first of the month, we will be following Flylady's steps and routines using a three-pronged approach (dependent on the stage everyone is at):

  • start or repeat baby steps
  • repeat baby steps + do 15 mins a day decluttering in the current zone
  • reinforce babysteps and do daily missions if you have finished decluttering.

[And if you are really enthusiastic and have finished decluttering - you can go on to detailed deep cleaning in each zone.]

More info here on getting started, and the flylady system here and here Don't be put off by the barf-tastic language of the site - the underlying system is sound.

All welcome!!

OP posts:
dizzyday07 · 07/10/2012 21:35

Today DH and I went into meltdown - all over a game of Cluedo! Blush

I took myself out for a couple of hours, then he did the same after I came back. We have had a "chat". He did wash up the pots tonight and let me watch X Factor so I suppose we will have to see how we go from here.

Ta Da list only has the weekly ironing (work shirts & uniform) on it.

deleted203 · 07/10/2012 21:50

Feeling positive after lovely weekend with family.

3 loads of washing
family lunch cooked (and eaten) and washing up done
DCs packed off back to uni - one by train, one by car (and with their washing done and ironed)
Uniforms for school dcs washed and ironed.
Corner unit assembled (not by me Grin) and ornaments on shelves
Hung two pictures that have been leaning against walls for many months a little while
Hot spot tidy-ish

Don't seem to be getting to the paperwork (which I loathe) yet. And actually, if I'm honest, a lot of my list making is the stuff I have to do anyway....still. Baby steps, baby steps.

Got to shine the ruddy sink now....
But clothes are ready for tomorrow.

Positive thoughts going out to trazzle and everyone else. Can I just add to strictlycaballine that I get all excited when she mentions me Smile. It's keeping me on track.

BlueEyeshadow · 07/10/2012 22:21

Evening all! [waves madly]

We've also had roast pork today - definitely something in the air... I am totally not thinking about Christmas though. Not just yet.

I've sorted out three loads of washing today, and decluttered a few paper hotspots, but still not nearly tidy.

That recipe does look good, issima - I've got a jar of harissa for another recipe and may well need something else to do with it! No preserved lemons though... [wonders idly if ordinary lemons would work]

castlelough · 08/10/2012 00:03

Thanks for the welcome back! Glad to be back :)

Didn't manage much on my list!

Had a surprise phonecall from some friends who happened to be passing by. Two years ago I moved three hours from Dublin where I am from, to a much more rural, but beautiful, area. Since then, although I go home and do see them regularly, only a handful of my friends have made it down this way! Was delighted to go and meet up with them. Grin

I have put on one load of laundry (towells - easy, no ironing or sorting...Blush) and I did get to school and also brought home and did some work too, and feel a lot better about that now that I've made a start on catching up! And I did work for dh (3 hrs).

Am dusting off my CJ and doing my entire morning routine tomorrow....beginning with a run, because like you SC the scales are tipping in the wrong direction Sad ....

Thinking of Trazzles and wishing everyone else sweet dreams xx

LPlateFlyer · 08/10/2012 07:16

Thank you for the welcome. Haven't actually managed to read much of the thread, but did spot Trazzles news. I'm so sorry!

I had set up the washing machine up overnight so there is a load in the dryer. Yesterday DH and I decluttered the boxes out of the shed. Our recycling and rubbish bins are overflowing which is fabulous. I do have a bunch of stuff sitting next to the back door looking for new homes now but it would probably only make up 1 box all together, so will tackle that today.

So glad this month is paper declutter. I have loads of papers in boxes and bags that have been scooped up in frantic clean ups which I must go through in my decluttering attempts!

I signed up to Flylady threads as a digest to one of my disposable email addresses ages ago, so every now and then when I feel inspired I go and read a few, and delete the rest.

Warning to other newbiews - don't sign up to your normal email address, you will be overloaded!!!! Shock

castlelough · 08/10/2012 07:22

I'm up! And at the sports ground, ready for my run..... Let the morning routine commence!
Fresh week, fresh start Wink

PS well done Lplate Smile

ShiftyFades · 08/10/2012 07:40

Morning all Grin
It's been raining GrinGrinGrin hopefully all the arse-residue has gone (glad you like that SC, it was hard one to come with, all others were far too offensive Wink)
Will fill the sink bowl with bleach later, once I know neighbours have gone to work, I'm just not comfortable with the thought of all those germs!

Trazzle I'm so glad DS is home with you, I've posted on your other thread. I hope he starts eating now he's in a more comfortable environment. I know he's 3 but how old (years & months) is he? My DS is 3 but he's 3.11 now and I know there's been huge progress with speech and understanding this year (the notorious "why" is being used in earnest Grin) so I'd love to picture how old your DS is exactly.

Waves to everyone else... Happy Monday Grin

Engelsemama · 08/10/2012 08:52

Hmmm, that stew looks yummy issima but not sure of my chances of finding pickled lemons (or even harrisa) in Albert Heijn (a sorry excuse for a supermarket)

Shifty I know one of the ladies on my post-natal thread was telling a story about her Mil who bleaches her drive regularly!

madwoman my thorough cleaning of the lounge paid off yesterday as my BIL/SIL and DNs rolled up unannounced to visit MIL/FIL next door (who weren?t home) so for once drop-in visitors coincided with a tidy downstairs (or ?public rooms? ? though this was thwarted by young DNs wanting to see DS?s room ?just in case it?s changed since last time?!

Only managed to write in my journal/diary sc but was very satisfying. I always find when I write with a fountain pen I make more effort even if it?s just a to-do list. With ballpoint my normally neat script tends to turns to scrawl. Did look back at the last short story I wrote a few months ago though ? it was very weird (and dark!). I really must make more time to write ? it makes me feel quite peaceful (and therefore impossible to do while DS is awake!).

Your lunch sounds lovely SC. I think the happiness that being around friends creates compensates for any over consumption of calories! Did you see the news item this weekend about the ?happiness of teenagers? ? and actually material possessions doesn?t make then happy, but having friends over for tea and going swimming once a fortnight does? Reckon they might be on the right track. But don?t tell them : they?ll be IMPOSSIBLE to live with if they think they?re right (said with all the authority of someone who hasn?t lived with a teen since I was one Grin )

dizzy my ex-boyf and I had TWO publics rows over board games (once I decided, probably unfairly, that he was being overly ?smug? at beating me at Trivial Pursuit and the other time while playing Cranium and I had my eyes shut and was doing the blind Pictionary task, instead of guessing, he walked outside to smoke, leaving me shouting, ?come on, it?s obvious?, gesticulating wildly with a pencil, as everyone else collapsed giggling. I can laugh about it now?.). My only relationship advice is keep talking to each other and tell him how you feel. My DH is not the easiest man to live with, but being honest with each other is what makes us work (as opposed to my ex ? we tiptoed round our probs and disagreements, never complained to each other, only about each other so the only person surprised when we split up was him.

Stew was delicious (and leftovers for dinner tomorrow night, plus a few portions squirreled away in the freezer for one-of-those-days). I know I moan about DH but I really shouldn?t. He is a wonderful cook, even if that is his only ?everyday? chore.

sowornout glad you had a good weekend

Glad you got some work done castle - and seeing friends is always wonderful (see my comments re? teens and happiness above!). Hope you had a good run.

Managed to do ALL of my list yesterday except make DH phone his aunt, which I am going to have to do now . Time to brush off my Dutch telephone voice.

List for today:

Put away yesterday?s washing (okay, so didn?t manage this yesterday, but it WON?T hang around all week!)
Change DS bed (snotfest as usual)
Spend 30 mins on decluttering bookshelves in lounge. Time to select next batch for donation Sad
Pop into town and get ? tights, zip up bags to store for garden cushions, small storage box for phone/ipod/kindle chargers that live in the lounge, check out rates for photography studio in V&D for DS, 30 mins on Christmas journal
Bully DH into inviting his friends over for DS?s party (apparently HE has to send them, not me )
Wrap DS birthday present
Write wedding card for colleague whose reception I missed Friday evening due to snot.
Print, sign and send reference for colleague.
Handwash
Do bathroom floor and sink/mirror (do not need to do shower because I did it yesterday!)
And?get out Rory?s story cubes and do another short, weird story.

Okay, time to get to it! Happy flying everyone. Smile

GossipWitch · 08/10/2012 09:12

Omg I have just managed to delete my entire post with one key, and I dont even know which one it was, right so kids are at school, I haven't got a shiny sink and the only thing I have done today is get dressed, so I have my entire morning routine to get through and the house blessing, so I really get the radio on and get to it. see you later ladies :)

issimma · 08/10/2012 09:35

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IWipeArses · 08/10/2012 09:45

Catch up later, urgent flying required!

  • phone doctors for appointment
-rubbish and recylcing out -sweep kitchen floor
  • wash pots
  • wipe down etc.
  • laundry - nappies, clothes
  • clean bathroom

plumber coming eek... Blush

Engelsemama · 08/10/2012 09:48

Netherlands issima - I dream of English supermarkets: the width of the aisles, the selection, the managers who look like managers (i.e. do not wear jeams and trainers), the cashiers who offer to pack your bags and do not rush onto the next customer while you're still struggling to get everything into your bags, proper parent and child car parking spaces, Cadbury's.

ShiftyFades · 08/10/2012 10:06

All the things we take for granted in a supermarket!!! I get annoyed if I can't get a p&c space!! Lol. I must be grateful that that's all that can annoy me really apart from one of the doors not walking in Chavda yesterday, had to walk a whole 20 yards around to the other door... Tut Wink

ToffeeWhirl · 08/10/2012 10:28

Survived DS1's 13th birthday on Saturday. We gave him an XBox on the strict understanding that he was not allowed to play any 18 games ("But all my friends are playing them!" Hmm). The birthday ended with DS1 in tears because we were sticking to our guns on this. Welcome to the teen years .

Had to cancel DS1's lesson this morning because he's just been sick and taken himself back to bed. Then a man turned up at 10 to replace our gas meter, which means I've had to take everything out of the understair's cupboard. I now have crap rubbish all over the dining room Sad. There is no way I'm going to put it all back in again, so DH and I will have to have a massive sort out. However, he's having root-canal treatment this morning, so won't be at his best when he comes home.

LPlateFlyer - good to have you with us Smile. Welcome to the thread.

Good to see that your little boy was allowed home yesterday, Trazzle.

Apologies for lack of any more personals. Looks as if I have my work cut out today .

GossipWitch · 08/10/2012 10:34

15 min break, I'm am now feeling better, I have done :-

2 min hotspot
5 min room rescue x2
and a 15 min declutter (which included organising paperwork as in the same area)

go me !!!! so now I'm just having myself a break before I do:-
kellys mission
laundry
a zone (if i feel like it)
shine sink (which i think dp may do as he's asked me to put hot water on)
another hotspot
houseblessing
and the decluttering of papers which ive sort of done

GossipWitch · 08/10/2012 10:41

Again I am fully aware that everyone else is babystepping, whilst I'm doing the lot but like I say apart from the de-cluttering, zones, missions and habits the other bits are already part of my daily routines so please dont be concerned that I'm off the page I still need help with getting my bum in gear over the bits I've not been doing :)

issimma · 08/10/2012 10:46

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laurenamium · 08/10/2012 11:38

Lots of chat here so will be back to catch up soon...

To do:
Home bleugh
My laundry away
DD laundry away
Wash my bedding
Wash DD bedding
Soft play with DD and meeting friends for tea
DF to take him his birthday present
Deliver some more invites
Routines
Walk dogs
Paperwork- maybe!

BB

dizzyday07 · 08/10/2012 11:52

All I have done today is hoover the downstairs. DD had dried mud come off her wellies this morning in the hall so it really couldn't be left.

We've had some floor tiles crack in our ensuite so the developer was organised to have them replaced today. The plumber came as expected after the school run (so now I have no water or toilet) but the tiler has still to appear Angry.

I have to go out at 3pm today so heaven knows if there is enough time for the grout to set (once he gets here, chips out the broken tiles and then replaces them) to get the plumber back before then. I may have to leave a key with the site office as we can't be without water overnight Hmm

deleted203 · 08/10/2012 11:53

Morning all! So far...

Drs appt for blood test
Posted 80th birthday card for auntie
15 mins de-cluttering in kitchen
2 loads of washing done
A vague wander with a duster in odd rooms
Phoned child benefit and got 16 yo re-instated on claim as she's A levelling. (They actually wrote to me 3 months ago and told me they needed info....Blush)
Found DD2s school photo order - the only school photo she's ever liked and really wanted to order but couldn't find - it was in kitchen (Hooray!)

I'm having a break now, and thinking about finding a notebook to write lists in. Also eyeing up flat pack storage box and wondering whether to find a screwdriver.......

Engelsemama · 08/10/2012 12:29

List update...

Call Dh?s aunt and invite her to DS?s party done (she can?t come)
Put away yesterday?s washing done
Change DS bed done
Spend 30 mins on decluttering bookshelves in lounge classics in lounge decluttered
Pop into town and get ? tights, zip up bags to store for garden cushions, small storage box for phone/ipod/kindle chargers that live in the lounge, check out rates for photography studio in V&D for DS DS sleeping, will go this afternoon
30 mins on Christmas journal
Bully DH into inviting his friends over for DS?s party (apparently HE has to send them, not me )
Wrap DS birthday present have cheated and put it in a gift bag. He?s 1, he doesn?t care!
Write wedding card for colleague whose reception I missed Friday evening due to snot
Print, sign and send reference for colleague done
Handwash done
Do bathroom floor and sink/mirror
And?get out Rory?s story cubes and do another short, weird story.

laurenamium · 08/10/2012 12:30

I'm adding, mow lawn out the back to my list for this afternoon if it isn't too wet! The dogs are currently running the length of the house backwards and forwards which is very annoying! Last nights date night went well as usual Grin Grin

I have started Christmas shopping, got all of DD birthday and main Christmas presents and have written the list of things I need to get others, I just need to remember to spread the cost of it all now!

sowornout Envy of storage purchases! I love looking at and buying storage boxes and things for the playroom/ DD room [needs a life emoticon]

Grin at cupboard issues madwoman! And arf at arse residue shifty! I know it's not a laughing matter but you put it so succinctly! (Is that the right word?)

Your roast for 10 sounds lovely sc Envy I had chicken nuggets for yesterday's lunch Sad DD was pleased though!

I hope things are okay with DH now dizzy! It's sometimes something little that triggers all the big things that have built up Sad the straw that broke the camels back as it were!

Grin at your board game arguments engels!

Thoughts are with you trazzles!

I'm really not looking forward to teen years toffee! Luckily I've got 11 more years to become brave enough to face a sulky teenager!

MercuryRising · 08/10/2012 12:40

Good morning everybody. Just been catching up on all the posts as I didn't get on here yesterday. Wow this thread moves quickly! Gossip you sound very on top of everything. I hope if I stick to this I can reach that point Envy. sc I think it was you who asked about our gps. We have two boys. We only got them at the beginning of the summer but they are adorable and very much part of the family already. Today I have completed the morning routine and done a food shop. I guess I should crack on with the home bleurgh. Have a lovely productive afternoon everybody.

ShiftyFades · 08/10/2012 12:47

lauren is read that as "succulently" and thought, yep, that's about right Blush

ShiftyFades · 08/10/2012 12:48

I^
God I'm crap at typing on my phone Angry