Didn't want to expose this to the real Aibu! So...washing up includes wiping draining board and surfaces? Quickly, just to get rid of crumbs? And if you Hoover the house, it includes the stairs? And doing the washing means dealing with it afterwards? And making sandwich/cuppa etc includes putting stuff used away afterwards? Last one...cooking a meal - does that have clearing away as you go along as part of job spec? Or Aibu? No impending domestic but just wondering whether my definition is too far reaching!