Have you seen (or can you find) a nice set of jam spoons / jar spoons?

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Long handled tea spoons with a kink or a hook to rest it on the side of the jam jar?

Can't find anything anywhere!

There are a few on Amazon e.g.

Have a look at Glover and Smith pewter stuff, I have ordered online from them without problems, some larger John Lewis Stores keep it.

HTH.