I recently read a book by Shirley Conran that I found at my mum's called "Superwoman". Basically a housekeeping manual written in the 1970's with the motto "Life is too short to stuff a mushroom". Fab book - all about how to do the minimum of housework.
Anyway, one of her suggestions is to keep your home tidy when you have a family is to have 1 box where any unidentifible crap that people leave lying around gets chucked into. The idea being that a) you keep the place looking clutter free and b) the offenders get so arsed off with having to rummage through a pile of crap to find their whatever, that they stop dumping stuff everywhere.
My DH and step daughter are really untidy and I am sick of doing the martyred tidying/heavy sighing thing with them - quiet frankly it is their look out if they can't their gloves/mobile phone charger/violin music etc etc.
Has anyone adopted this idea and has it worked?