DH does equal (maybe more, if I'm honest, but then I do more childcare) amounts of housework to me, but refuses to follow any kind of list, saying he has enough task lists at work and would rather just do things when he sees them.
My issue is that I am utterly rubbish at housework- I can be "doing housework" all day and at the end of it I have just shifted mess about a bit. I don't seem to see mess properly- eg i have been trying to sort out my front room for months, I asked my sister to give it a quick once over and within half an hour she had it perfect.
So, I think FLY could be good for me, but do I just ignore the bits that DH does- if it says to tidy the kids room, for example, do I do it anyway, even if DH only did it yesterday and the dining room really needs doing?
Also, this thing about getting all dressed and made up in the morning- at what time does it go from "ridiculously early get up with baby" to "morning"?
TIA :)