"TBH if my DH did this I would be really passive about it, and just say "Oh dear! What do you think you should do about that?" and let him get on with it."
That's why I'm sat on the sofa with the laptop.
I cook. I am responsible for the cooker.
DH clears up. The dishwasher is therefore his.
The kitchen it is in is mine () but the dishwasher itself is his.