As you may have noticed, I've been thinking about HE for a while now, especially since DH said he agrees with my reasons for it. Yesterday we were chatting over dinner and I was umming and ahhing about it, worrying about the finer details. Eventually DH said I should be looking at the bigger picture, and I know he was right. After a while he just said "look, we're HEing, that's the end of it!"
He's always been much more decisive than me! And I have to say, as soon as the decision was out in the open I felt much happier. Because I know that it's the decision I wanted to make. And now we can focus on the practicalities instead of the what-ifs. For which I will obviously be posting here a lot!
Yay!