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How do parents manage home education while working full-time?

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2kidswelshmum · 02/09/2026 09:06

Just curious about homeschooling and those who do it. This isn’t for me, I’m wondering about the logistics of someone I know who’s recently put on Facebook that she’s homeschooling her three children herself whilst working full-time. Without wanting to cause her offence or question her parenting, I’m just struggling to understand how that is doable? Three different aged children, all under 8, one ADHD. No judgement about homeschooling, I understand mainstream isn’t right for everyone and everyone has their own reasons. I’m purely just curious how she’s going to have the time? I find doing homework with two children in the evening takes a lot of focus, I couldn’t be working at the same time.

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KarcherK5 · 02/09/2026 17:07

@SandyThumb - there are checks being introduced now, and if parents are found not to be providing a decent education the authorities will be able to require them to send the kids to school. I agree with you that’s sensible, the issue will just be how those judgements are made.

2kidswelshmum · 02/09/2026 20:27

KarcherK5 · 02/09/2026 16:37

I have two nephews who are home educated while their parents work full time, but they’re both very bright, very academically inclined, and really happily log on to their online classes or get out their workbooks without any prompting.

Their parents (my brother and SIL) take turns to work from home and when they can’t then SIL’s mum will have the kids over, and they do their school work and hobbies there.

They also live in a friendly village and seem to do all their socialising at the park at the end of their street when the other kids get out of school for the day, plus local play dates, so they don’t need to be ferried around anywhere.

They’re Christians and also actively involved in their church so do voluntary work through that, and know people of a range of ages.

So it works really well for them but that’s a very specific and unusual set of circumstances! I think for most families - especially with less money for online classes, less academically inclined kids, less family support - it would be impossible.

That sounds like it works well! But in this case they have no family support at all - their families both live overseas. Which is why I’m puzzled how they are going to manage. The husband works out of the house, his role isn’t one you can work from home with. So it’s all on her. Tricky!

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Girliefriendlikespuppies · 02/09/2026 20:46

They can’t 🤷‍♀️

poor kids.

maggisimpson · 02/09/2026 23:22

I do! DH & I both work from home, DH does 30 hours but with some flex. Kids are a bit older now (10, 12 and 13 year olds are home educated) also have an older one at college and a younger one who chose to go to school last year.
They do a mix of tutoring, clubs, online lessons, going to grandparents and they're pretty independent.

Mumoftwoteenagers · 02/09/2026 23:31

Well many many people gave it a go during lockdown.

Ever seen the Catherine Tate “Working mother” sketch? It is hilarious. I can’t believe she wrote it pre lockdown.

And don’t forget the news reporter with the kids that came in!

teaandaflorentineplease · 03/09/2026 11:44

KarcherK5 · 02/09/2026 16:37

I have two nephews who are home educated while their parents work full time, but they’re both very bright, very academically inclined, and really happily log on to their online classes or get out their workbooks without any prompting.

Their parents (my brother and SIL) take turns to work from home and when they can’t then SIL’s mum will have the kids over, and they do their school work and hobbies there.

They also live in a friendly village and seem to do all their socialising at the park at the end of their street when the other kids get out of school for the day, plus local play dates, so they don’t need to be ferried around anywhere.

They’re Christians and also actively involved in their church so do voluntary work through that, and know people of a range of ages.

So it works really well for them but that’s a very specific and unusual set of circumstances! I think for most families - especially with less money for online classes, less academically inclined kids, less family support - it would be impossible.

How old are you nephews for this arrangement to work? I’m wanting to HE my child and also want to remain working part time and I’m wondering when this option will be available (obviously depending on my child’s temperament). The early years will be hard and we’ll make it work with a mix of forest school and I’m looking for a childminder who will look after HE kids during the school day.

MelonSorbet · 03/09/2026 11:50

roaringdragon · 02/09/2026 15:13

I know a family who EHE where both parents work full-time. The mother is a HCP who works 3 long shifts a week with set days and the father WFH normal office hours but compressed into 4 days rather than 5. The weekdays are covered by two days with their DM, one day with their DF and two days at a forest school with the DGPs dropping off and collecting.

I know a couple of others who EHE and both work full-time but they rely more on DGPs during the day or where DC are older and get be left to get on with learning themselves for some of the time.

Is it really exclusively home educating if they're sending them off to forest school two days a week?

KarcherK5 · 03/09/2026 11:52

teaandaflorentineplease · 03/09/2026 11:44

How old are you nephews for this arrangement to work? I’m wanting to HE my child and also want to remain working part time and I’m wondering when this option will be available (obviously depending on my child’s temperament). The early years will be hard and we’ll make it work with a mix of forest school and I’m looking for a childminder who will look after HE kids during the school day.

They’re 8 and 9 now but they do have very academic/self-starter temperaments. There’s no chance my kids could have coped with this set up at those ages!

pinkspeakers · 03/09/2026 11:56

It would be a huge challenge, but not impossible.

Home education doesn't need to take many hours in the day to get the educational benefits of school, I don't think. They could split childcare between the two parents, they could have other childcare, they could be join various groups that provide educational activities. They could do their paid work largely in the evenings. So each parent spends half a day with the kids and they catch up later.

I wouldn't fancy it myself! We used to have have time childcare when my daughter was a baby, split the afternoons between us and worked every evening. It was tough!

maggisimpson · 03/09/2026 12:15

MelonSorbet · 03/09/2026 11:50

Is it really exclusively home educating if they're sending them off to forest school two days a week?

Home education doesn't mean literally staying at home!
There are loads of options like forest/farm schools, alternative learning settings, co-ops, childcare that children can go to a few days or hours a week.

roaringdragon · 03/09/2026 12:31

MelonSorbet · 03/09/2026 11:50

Is it really exclusively home educating if they're sending them off to forest school two days a week?

Legally, yes. EHE doesn’t have to take place at home, neither does it have to be undertaken exclusively by the parents.

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 03/09/2026 12:38

InQuiresandplaceswheretheysing · 02/09/2026 15:23

I know a family with 6 kids who home educated. I always wondered how they did it with a new born and several
toddlers. But they seem to have done ok.

They are better (and stronger) people than me! Or maybe they have more docile children, because I found it so hard trying to divide my time between my daughter needing full hands-on help and the others wanting my attention (but then my kids were feral little buggers, so a quieter and more restrained bunch of siblings wouldn't be hard to imagine).

Saracen · 03/09/2026 12:44

SandyThumb · 02/09/2026 16:46

I agree, to some extent, but in these cases there was no evidence that the boys were getting any of the basics they needed in maths, english etc.

I do feel that there need to be some checks to ensure that at least the basics are being covered.

You don't think decorators and carpenters need maths?? 😂My husband was a carpenter and I can assure you that he spent a significant proportion of his time doing calculations, some of them quite complex. Sometimes I used to double check his trigonometry and his taxes for him, not because he was incompetent but because anyone can make a mistake. There was a lot to do.

Get it wrong and your joists don't fit, you waste money on extra materials you don't need, your quotes are all wrong and your tax return is a total mess.

SandyThumb · 04/09/2026 09:19

@Saracen no, that’s not what I said, and of course they do, but it’s clear that in the two examples I came across the boys had not had even any basic maths education - it was obvious when talking to them about measurements etc.

If you home educate secondary age children is there any requirement for them to take any exams such as GCSEs and if not, how can they progress to college or university?

Saracen · 04/09/2026 17:49

SandyThumb · 04/09/2026 09:19

@Saracen no, that’s not what I said, and of course they do, but it’s clear that in the two examples I came across the boys had not had even any basic maths education - it was obvious when talking to them about measurements etc.

If you home educate secondary age children is there any requirement for them to take any exams such as GCSEs and if not, how can they progress to college or university?

I'm sure if the boys carry on helping their parents with their work, the parents will want them to make themselves useful and won't leave them without the skills to do the job properly. That wouldn't be in anyone's interests. So I imagine you are somehow missing part of the picture here.

Maybe they find maths very difficult: my learning disabled 20yo certainly needs me at her elbow whenever she measures. She's slowly heading in the right direction, and luckily there is no deadline! Or maybe they were taken out of school in recent years after getting the message there that maths is hateful and difficult - that loss of confidence can take a long time to overcome. Maybe these lads simply aren't interested yet, but they will see the point as soon as they want to work for themselves. Learning follows on very quickly once the motivation is there.

(It is of course illegal for young teens to help out with their parents' work if it takes place during the school day or for too many hours per week, so if they are doing that then their parents are on the wrong side of the law.)

You asked about GCSEs. There is no requirement for home educated teens to take GCSEs. Most who are capable of taking them do so, either because their parents want them to or because it's necessary to what they want next, such as college. They don't tend to do a large number of them all in one sitting as schoolchildren are made to do. Instead they may spread them out over several years so they can focus on a few subjects at a time and reduce stress. A very academic child may dip a toe in the water with a single subject at 12 or 13 and then do a few every year thereafter. A child who finds exams harder might do two or three at 16 and a few more at 17. Five or six well chosen subjects is usually enough to get them into college or their preferred career.

For those who have no GCSEs, colleges usually have something available, because of course many schoolchildren also don't pass their GCSEs but everyone is meant to remain in education or training until 18, so in theory there should be something available. There are generally some Level 1 courses available to teens with no qualifications. Maths and English GCSE can always be done at college post-16; in fact current government policy is that adults of any age can take those subjects at college for free if they don't already have them. Some colleges offer a fixed set of six or so "catch-up" GCSEs to teens who don't have them, though usually there is no choice of subjects. But it's something.

Some kids go straight into work without qualifications. This was the original plan for one of my kids, who was capable of sitting GCSEs but didn't want to. I saw no need to force them, since I knew they could do them later if they changed their mind. For home educated young people, there's no particular reason to do them at 16 rather than any other age: they have to pay regardless. Instead, my child did a lot of part time paid and voluntary work in their early teens in order to gain experience and build a good CV, alongside learning about everything that interested them, with no immediate intention to sit exams.

Unfortunately in their late teens my child became too ill to do any regularly scheduled work at all (chronic fatigue). They decided their only option was part time academic study, which they could manage whenever they felt up to it. They did English GCSE at 19 and maths at 20 in parallel with self-directed art study and some paid and voluntary freelance art work, then went to uni part time, emerging with a good degree at 25. Getting in on portfolio and relevant experience alone was only possible due to it being an arts course. We do know people who have done Access courses to get into Uni without previous exam passes, and others who have gone straight to work - some of whom later returned to education as mature students in order to change career. They tend to be quite focused because they've been allowed to make their own life choices from an early age.

So yes, it's not ideal to bypass GCSEs altogether unless you know your career won't need them, but other paths are available.

I don't regret not making my child do GCSEs at 16. I do regret not leaning on them to pass their driving test at the earliest possible age. This has proved to be a bigger practical challenge and continues to restrict their job prospects. It intrigues me that so many people believe all kids should be made to do GCSEs young "just in case", but don't have the same attitude to driving.

BigGra · 04/09/2026 18:11

I think there is a misconception of what home education involves. It doesn’t necessarily mean a parent / parents are sitting at the kitchen table for 5 hrs a day drilling time tables into their kids

I have a colleague who works from home full time with occasional office days, 2/3 a month as required and also home educates two children.
She is not really involved in the HE, I think she said her contribution is max 1 hr a day which she can easily fit around work.
She uses tutors, online hubs, local sports clubs and forest schools. They also attend a half day hub once a week and do a new skill like cooking food prep, pottery. She excels at her job and her kids are lovely, friendly kids and have a sense of maturity way above their peers.

user1471538275 · 04/09/2026 20:07

I would point out that there are quite a few schooled children that take no GCSE's - they simply don't turn up.

Others turn up for the exam then put their head down onto the desk and don't pick up a pen.

Attending school over multiple years does not necessarily lead to well educated people.

ResultSuch4662 · 10/09/2026 17:20

One thing that can make this feel more manageable is distinguishing between ‘being available to supervise all day’ and ‘creating a routine that the young person can increasingly own’. For older children, a visible weekly plan, clear independent tasks, a regular check-in and protected time for anything that needs parent input can be more realistic than trying to recreate school hours.

Jibbee · 10/09/2026 17:45

Impossible, unless the parent works their full time job through the night and don’t require any sleep

Morepositivemum · 10/09/2026 17:47

I know people who do all their work early morning and at night time. Sounds like hell alongside home schooling though!!

maggisimpson · 10/09/2026 18:03

Jibbee · 10/09/2026 17:45

Impossible, unless the parent works their full time job through the night and don’t require any sleep

How many children have you home educated?

Stopthattractor · 11/09/2026 09:19

Jibbee · 10/09/2026 17:45

Impossible, unless the parent works their full time job through the night and don’t require any sleep

I know many parents who home educate and work flexible hours. They carpool to group events, have tutors here and there, share part time nannies (usually ex classroom assistants who are very pleased to combine supporting formal learning with muddy mornings hunting for fossils and making tree houses) and are very dedicated. It doesn't take six hours a day to educate your own child on a one to one basis. Especially when you realise that worksheets for any other reason than demonstrating evidence of learning are usually unnecessary and a rather weak way to engage with learning. I think that's where everyone went wrong with lockdown schooling. Which was as hard on home ed kids as school kids because our social activities were paused.

Stopthattractor · 11/09/2026 09:23

ResultSuch4662 · 10/09/2026 17:20

One thing that can make this feel more manageable is distinguishing between ‘being available to supervise all day’ and ‘creating a routine that the young person can increasingly own’. For older children, a visible weekly plan, clear independent tasks, a regular check-in and protected time for anything that needs parent input can be more realistic than trying to recreate school hours.

This is very wise. My children's independent study skills became very impressive and they took ownership in a way that was noticeably different from their peers when they returned to school. A motivated child often needs a respectful guide rather than someone breathing down their neck and this is true of some children in key stage one.

sunights · 12/09/2026 09:16

Mumoftwoteenagers · 02/09/2026 23:31

Well many many people gave it a go during lockdown.

Ever seen the Catherine Tate “Working mother” sketch? It is hilarious. I can’t believe she wrote it pre lockdown.

And don’t forget the news reporter with the kids that came in!

Just looked it up- hilarious!

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