We currently live in a top floor flat so I conceded to DH's dislike of curtains and we don't have any. There aren't any curtain rails anyway. It's only an issue in one room as we're not overlooked on the other two sides.
We are soon moving to a first floor flat where the bedrooms and one bathroom will all face another property. There's the option to have curtain rails inset into the ceiling - I think it's necessary, DH doesn't.
What do you have? What are good alternatives? We have external shutters but I'm thinking more light net curtains so during the day we have light but no one can see in. But curtains will cause arguments...