metallic lilac feature wall bedroom heeeelp!?

[apprenticemamma]

Found a gorgeous wallpaper range (soubise, Osborne & little) and was torn between the silver and the metallic lilac versions. The downstairs is already 50 shades of grey so dh and I decided we d go with metallic lilac feature wall , rest of room light grey and black white & silver accessories. Now in a major quandary, wondering if this would look too girly although balanced out with a LOT of black & silver? Thoughts? Am pg so prone to fashion mistakes . Thanks!

Do it, I've got purple silver and grey, it doesn't look girly at all :) If you and your DH like it, what's putting you off? It's your bedroom, do have many guests in and out of there? Just dim the lights, they won't notice the decor

thanks for your advice. It's actually a weird pinky lilac colour which changes from silver grey to lilac and then pink in different angles/ lights. I'm going to think about it more and when it arrives can always change order to silver. (What am I like )