love Italy - France
haven't really been to Spain, went here in greece last summer and it was good but don't want to go back.
Don't need "nightlife" as long as there are a few good eateries we can enjoy early evening.
Beach - yes please
Child friendly pool - yes please
Short transfer time - yes please
no more than 4 hour flight
Happy to do self catering if location is right.
Can anyone help?