40 next month. Trying to work out where on earth to go for a weekend. Part of me thinks bustling city where I can do lots of stuff and drown my sorrows - still thinking about Lille or Bruges, although journey time to latter sounds tad extreme. Part of me thinks somewhere stunningly beautiful, where can hole up, go for walks, maybe even a bike or horse ride, and then drown my sorrows. The Samling in the Lake District looks gorgeous - quite fancy Scotland as well. Have been to neither before, and feel it's about time I bloody well did. Thoughts please on how to make the most of this impending day of doom?