My son finished yr 2 at uni on a demanding STEM course this June, and then discovered he had failed two ‘must pass’ modules. He was allowed to resit them over summer, and had the most miserable summer ever, cramming in his room every day over the heatwave. He found out yesterday he still failed both, with zero improvement in his grades. His uni have now said he can’t progress to yr 3 without them, so must resit them again this year, on a non attendance basis.
my son is struggling to understand what this means- there’s no maintenance loan (no tuition fees either), but he’s locked in to a years accommodation. There’s no academic support which means he’s going to have to self study, which I worry about because that approach has not worked over the summer and so is likely to not work this time unless he really changes something.
He says he’s not sure where it went wrong but doesn’t seem willing to ask questions / ask advice to find out.
I’ve had conversations with him to see if he wants to continue or try to find an alternative course somewhere else that he might be more comfortable in but he says he wants to carry on with this one. Whilst I want to be supportive of his choices I don’t feel confident that he’s grasped the implications or that it’s necessarily the right course for him.
I don’t know know how we will pay for his accommodation- I’ve suggested he seeks a tenancy takeover but he’s not willing to give up his room and says he intends to stay there this year- I’m not even sure that he can do that, does he still count as a student? (It’s private rented house for students).
I feel totally out of my depth, worried sick about him and the finances. I feel like he’s shut down emotionally- he doesn’t seem bothered / upset / anything at all, and it doesn’t seem like a surprise to him either.
I don’t even know why I’m posting other than to see if others have been there or if there is any advice / hand holding.
I worry about his state of mind and whether there is anything I should have done differently.