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Alternatives to university - non academic children

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Remmy123 · 16/08/2026 13:51

My son will be going into his second year at college in September - is doing two BTECs and 1 A level

curious to know what alternative routes those who have just finished college but do not want to go to uni? Son is adamant it's not for him and given he doesn't enjoy studying I have to agree.

thanks

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ifonlytheydlisten · 19/08/2026 23:27

Notbuiltforheat · 19/08/2026 19:27

A couple of B Tecs and an A level is hardly “not academic”. One of mine is profoundly dyslexic. Super bright and articulate but despite his outstanding education, 1:1 and EHCP he is tracking to fail literally everything. I’m at a loss as to what to do. He could sell coal to Newcastle though.

I once worked with someone who was excellent at all sorts. He even published book reviews. However he didn’t actually read the books. He got others to tell them their views in a few lines and consolidated it. Completely dyslexic

ifonlytheydlisten · 19/08/2026 23:30

My very popular skilled gas fitter who earns a great deal and is always over booked it also profoundly dyslexic. He told me at school he was labelled thick (7Os). He told me once about how he learn it all and did his qualifications and recerts.
he tells me he can only read familiar stuff.
learnt by watching & listening.

ifonlytheydlisten · 19/08/2026 23:32

Orquid · 19/08/2026 00:33

Sorry to jump on this thread but how do you look for apprenticeships? DC doesn’t want to do university either, has never been academic and have been talking about doing an apprenticeship.

There’s loads web pages listing them. I found a list where you could search by area

livelovelough24 · 19/08/2026 23:55

Everyone nowadays wants to go to university, but many fail or do not get good jobs after. My son works in trades, loves it and earns good money. Trades people are really needed where I live and business are willing to pay big money to get them.

ifonlytheydlisten · 20/08/2026 00:25

agree @livelovelough24 I’d bloody celebrate if my DC qualified as a gas fitter or electrician as they’ll never be out of work

HushTheNoise · 22/08/2026 10:37

Lidl and Aldi I think do decent training programmes. After a certain number of years you get a company car too I think. Lifeguarding is good as usually involves some other aspects of leisure centre. Could go down coaching route or management route. It's sad schools just push people to uni and don't think about other routes as much, I hope your child finds something he enjoys.

NameforaDay77 · 24/08/2026 11:27

I think with those subjects he has quite a range of possibilities. Depending on interest (his) I'd look at sports therapists / coaching / fitness training etc.

Jobs that are not going to be replace with AI

Remmy123 · 29/08/2026 09:34

Thanks for all the replies - agreed I did say he wasn't academic but he just got a distinction for his business sttudies exam and on his way for a distinction for his BTEC.

needs to work much harder for his A Level and needs to really start thinking what direction he wants to go in.

he recently said he should have done an electricians course so I may try and get him some work experience to see if it's something he may enjoy.

currently his best life at reading festival!

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