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Personal Tutors - what to expect?

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stitchinthyme · 13/10/2025 21:49

DC started at uni 4 weeks ago and received emails telling him about the importance of his personal tutor for all things academic, and for future references etc. All the other tutors in his department invited their tutees to a pizza and beer social, but his arranged a 10 minute meetup in his office at the same time as the social, in the same building. He introduced himself, and said they could email him, but he might take a while to respond. Other tutors in the department are arranging meetings every 2 weeks.

It's early days, and might work itself out, but my question is, what should he expect of his tutor? And if his tutor seems disinterested, would it be reasonable to ask for a different tutor?

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fortyfifty · 15/10/2025 00:16

CameForAVacationStayedForTheRevolution · 14/10/2025 15:45

Times have definitely changed. I meet my personal tutees 3x a year and am available as a point of contact at other times but that would really just involve sign posting.

when I was a student we used to be invited back to my personal tutors house as a small group and smoke pot together 🙈🤣

Oh my! 😲😄 When and where was that?

CameForAVacationStayedForTheRevolution · 15/10/2025 12:15

fortyfifty · 15/10/2025 00:16

Oh my! 😲😄 When and where was that?

Liverpool in the 80s. 😁. Not sure it was standard practice mind.

Mumteedum · 15/10/2025 12:52

I don't even remember having personal tutors back in the nineties. I do remember tutors coming down the pub with us.

I remember winding up my feminist tutor by getting her a half on purpose 😁

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