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DS changing his mind about university choice

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Smallpeabigpea · 23/08/2025 16:28

My DS has been given his firm choice which is in a city 4 hours from home. He’d been adamant he wanted to go but now it’s come to committing to the accommodation he’s had a wobble and now thinks he’d rather live at home and go to a local university. I’ve no problem with this but unfortunately the one he’d like to go to has no places left in clearing. He could have met this year’s clearing grade requirements for the course. He is now thinking a gap year would be best and apply for 2026. This university’s standard grade requirement for 2026 is higher than his grades so I’m wondering if he applies with his actual grades for 2026 will it be a straight decline. Any advice please?

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Smallpeabigpea · 24/08/2025 16:31

Thank you @Dearover I’ll do that.

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Dearover · 24/08/2025 16:36

Remember, all around the country young people are changing their minds. Don't let a small bump knock him off. There will always be another place available, even if one deadline gets missed

TizerorFizz · 24/08/2025 19:13

Private halls might not be the same though. Probably more expensive.

Smallpeabigpea · 28/08/2025 20:12

Thank you all for your advice. He got his accommodation offer reinstated and is back on track to go after his initial cold feet.

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TizerorFizz · 28/08/2025 20:51

@Smallpeabigpea Phew!!! Hope all ok!

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