I have been burying my head in the sand about all this but now need to make some plans.
Ds will be starting university this autumn. He will be in fully-catered hall, and qualifies for minimum loan. Actually I thought he would get no loan (as earn more than £60K) but it seems to have a sum on the paperwork he received.
What do other "ordinary" people give their dcs if they are in hall? I have asked some real life people and they breezily said that the grandparents were paying everything
but no one to help here!