DD has chosen a uni that is a five hour car drive away. Her choice, not my place to guilt-trip her out of it. Have dropped her off last week, and have been dealing with 'What's my NI no, who's my doctor, can you send my passport cos i can't find my ID' ever since....if only she had thought of these things two days ago when XH was going to see her... I'm pretty sure she'll be fine, but I have discovered if I don't do the drive (find it very stressful, but possible in an emergency) the train fair, even about six weeks ahead with a railcard, is about a hundred quid return. Would probably be cheaper to fly... How do I get over myself and the fear of not being able to get there sooner? How have other people coped? TIA.