I really don't know if my DD is G&T or not - she's 7 and her reading's great; her artistic ability I'd say is pretty good, but then I'm biased. Her teacher at parents' evening just said "It's not v professional of me to say this, but she's well above average". Why not v professional? Thought schools were SUPPOSED to make this kind of judgement? How can I (tactfully) take this up with the school without implying that I think DD IS gifted?