Had my pre operation assessment this morning..I thought I would be told about the after affects and recovery time etc..but the nurse did not really know what to expect afterwards and was of little help..but she was lovely and reassuring. I am having it done on the 18th August and want to know how long DH should take of work to help with the children, also it is my daughters birthday on the 21st..so planning a party..or if I am not up to that..then a meal out at least..(should be ok for that) and we are off to Flamingoland for the day on the 22nd..so loads of walking and rides etc etc. Then off on holiday to Flamingo land for the week at Bank holiday Will I be ok for all of these things or what should I take it easy on? Googling is scaring me and making me very aware of the anesthetic etc etc..and little on recovery time...Many thanks for your help