My DD has swine flu (or at least so I think) phoned helpline and they gave it to me but I have not given it to DD as am worried about side affects and am questioning the usefulness of it. He has a temp of 39.4, but seems not too bad, has eaten today and drunk ok and not been sick. He is always sick so amazed he is not. This why I don't want to give him tamiflu. Am worried it will make him sick and then it always takes me a good week to persuade him to eat again, not convinced its worth it. But then, when is a temperature too high and you just give him tamiflu?