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morning after pill now period is 4 days late

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noddyholder · 29/04/2005 12:30

Is your next period after taking this usually late?I have sore boobs etc but still no period Am really getting worried now as I took the pill about 36hrs after the incident with the condom

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lovingmummy · 29/04/2005 12:44

I know it helps to ask advice but you won't know the answer for certain until you do a pg test.
Hope you get the result you want.

starlover · 29/04/2005 12:46

my friend took the morning after pill and her period was late. I think they told her it might be.

agree with lovingmummy though... you won't know for sure until you test!

WigWamBam · 29/04/2005 12:46

I agree, you need to take a pregnancy test so you know what the score is and where you go from here.

I too hope you get the result you want.

Toothache · 29/04/2005 12:57

noddyholder - Weren't you advised to make an appointment with the GP for a test? How long ago did you take it?
Im sure I was told that if I hadn't had an AF within 3 weeks of taking it then I should test. But it definitely mucks up your cycle!

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noddyholder · 29/04/2005 13:05

I am too scared I will give it a few days Not like me to do the head in the sand thing but can't face it.I took the pill on fri 15 april perid due on 25th

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WigWamBam · 29/04/2005 13:06

At least if you take a test you'll know whether you have anything to be scared about. No point worrying yourself sick until you know whether there is anything to worry about.

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noddyholder · 29/04/2005 13:07

i know www that is the sort of advice I would give !I have ds's birthday this weekend 8 boys staying over and I think if I did a test and it was positive I would spoil the fun!Will def do one Mondday

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Toothache · 29/04/2005 13:08

Noddy - I'm a bit like that too!
But you only took it 2 weeks ago, and it does mess with your cycle so I wouldn't class your AF as late. However, in saying that.... you should still test coz if you are pg it would definitely show by now.

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noddyholder · 29/04/2005 13:10

The trouble is I have spent the last yr debating having another child and had just decided with my doctors that it wasn't advisable I would find it very hard to have a termination but have no choice

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LGJ · 29/04/2005 13:16

Oh honey,

I have been sitting here praying that you aren't and yes you are right if you are, you really won't have any choice.

My heart goes out to you, I know how you feel, not about this question, but having another child.

With much love

LGJ

Toothache · 29/04/2005 13:18

Oh Noddy - I had no idea it would be so serious a situation for you.... I was just thinking you were worried about the inconvenience of being pregnant just now. That's awful.... I really hope you are not pregnant!

Will you be doing something a bit more permanent about contraception? I have the Mirena coil fitted and it's been fine for me. Don't know your medical implications though.... so forgive my ignorance.

WigWamBam · 29/04/2005 13:21

Oh, what an awful situation. In which case then in your shoes I would want to know as soon as possible, to give me time to come to terms with things.

Is there really no way that you can continue with a pregnancy, even with plenty of medical support and careful monitoring?

Toothache · 29/04/2005 13:21

If a termination is the only option... then the earlier the better eh?

LGJ · 29/04/2005 13:28

WWB

It is basically the same situation as mine.

I tried to talk my cardiologist around, he went off and asked around.

He had a colleague who had a woman who ignored medical advice, she got preganant and went into labour at 24 weeks.

My mind started to race ahead and I was thinking, not ideal but doable.

Then the Cardio, dropped his bombshell, she and the baby died on the table during and emergency C.

It was then that I decided that DS needed a mummy more than I needed another baby.

I have been to emotional hell and back and still struggle with issue.

That is why I am praying and I mean praying that NH is not pregnant

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noddyholder · 29/04/2005 13:29

thanks for all yuor lovely messages I have looked at every option but the medication I am on which protects my kidney(transplant)combined with heart medication would not be allowed in pregnancy and I need them Had just come to terms with having just 1 child when we had the condom incident I have a pregnancy test upstairs and will do it if nothing by Sundayxx

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WigWamBam · 29/04/2005 13:45

Oh, that's just awful, LGJ. I remember reading that when you first posted and thinking what a terrible thing it was.

Noddy, I truly hope that the test is negative. I'll be thinking of you over the weekend.

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noddyholder · 29/04/2005 13:53

my cardiologist actually said go ahead!It was the renal side that was bothering me as my 1st transplant failed after my son was born at about 6 months I had had it 10 yrs and all the doctors said it was nothing to do with childbirth and would have failed anyway I have since found out that transplants can fail in the 2 years following birth but not always.I wouldn't like to be on dialysis again with a small child it was a nightmare and we lost our house etc so am grateful for my lovely ds and am praying too xxx

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