Ok, so I have namechanged for this but please bear with me. I dtd last night for the first time since dd was born (I can't even begin to describe the dynamics of this relationship, we had our dd 6 months ago and he broke up with me pretty soon after that but recently seem to have made progress) I am still bf and have so far not had a period. We used a condom but as I went to throw the packet away this morning I saw the use by date on it was November last year (god knows how long he's been carrying that one round with him ) So now I am all paranoid that even though we used protection it will be useless and am freaking out. Is it worth going to get the MAP?