TMI alert Anyone ever ask their husband or partner to....

[awaitingmenses]

'bring them on?'

had a baby a few months ago and am tipping on the edge of a period - cramping - slight spotting - pms - for DAYS now and i just wish the darn period would come...

i have found before that a bit of the old 'rough and ready' often starts of a period

any one else actual ask their dp to be a bit 'rough with the rod' to this 'end' ????

ps have name changed (i hope ! )

No.

cant say i have

Erm...no

Would of found it far too uncomfortable and I don't think dh would of enjoyed seeing me in pain just so I could bleed a bit earlier-gross imo.

not as I recall... no.

oh i am alone in my pre period antics then

it does not hurt btw

it relieves me !!

I haven't personally been in this situation but don't see anything wrong with it if both you and your DP are up for it. SOme people are freaked out by the idea of penetrative sex near or during the monthly blob, some people are unfussed and some very turned on by it. If you're happy, enjoy.

(Oh, and there is a biological basis for it, between the jizz hitting your innards and the oxytocin produced by an orgasm, your womb will contract: same way as a good seeing-to is often recommended as a way of starting an overdue labour).

solidgoldbrass thanks for that !

did you used to have another name?

Yes. Right, am off to change to complete mentalist Xmas name just to annoy everyone and confuse them.

Umm surely you could do it yourself - isn't it uterine contractions from orgasm you are trying to achieve.

Personally I find wearing white trousers and planning a very busy day does the trick for me

I've never tried this, but if it relieves you and doesn't hurt, go for it! Your partner surely doesn't mind you asking to be a bit rough with you, does he?!?!

I always find I am very horny around the time I am due on (I am very regular but this always surprises me .....) we have a lot of sex and bingo...