Dd's asthma playing up, but she is supposed to be going to a party

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Dd2 (5) has asthma and yesterday and today it has been playing up a bit. She never gets a fulll blown attack where she wheezez but can cough and cough that much that she can't get her breath.

Anyway she has a party this afternoon in a ball pool, and i am concened that all the running around will make her cough even more.

Dp said to just take her inhaler and spacer and leave it with the party girls mum, but i don't think this is very fair on the mum, even though dd reckons she has given her her inhaler before (she is a dinner lady).
I want dp to stay at the party with Dd but he won't.

can you call the host and ask?

if not I would want DP to stay too

Don't have a number Twig.

Will have to tell dp that he will stay else she can't go.
If i was the mom, i wouldn't want someone assuming that I would dish out medication, and i'm sure she will have enough to do anyway.