Frustrated and fed up

[amiwierd]

I have a broken fanjo and have absolutely no sex drive whatsoever.

Also my vulva is sore and dry compared to normal, making any sex I do fancy painful and nigh on imposssible.
Things have been like this for several months now since I had my coil removed.
I also have had pain from episiotomy site for 3 years and DH says I feel tighter now than prior to childbirth.

DH is obviously getting very frustrated as used to have a good and full sex life

Can anyone shed any light on this, I am getting very low now as Even on the rare occasions I fancy sex we cant manage it due to pain no matter how much lube we use.

You need to see your GP and get a referral to an ob/gynae consultant. You need to get your repair checked and your hormone levels assessed as a first step. It may be something physical that can be fixed and once the 'fear/worry' of pain is gone you'll hopefully find your libido starts to come back.

What would the hormone level thing be for?

They may want to check things like thyroid hormone levels (can affect libido)

btw sorry for blunt answer before, was about to do the bedtime run