I just wanted to thank you for advising me to go to my GP. I know it's only a small step, but today I fessed up to my fear of the dentist and my GP prescribed me some diazepam and gave me the name of a 'lovely lady dentist'. My next step is to make an appointment for a check-up but I feel very proud of having made this first step. thanks for your understanding / cajoling/ bullying etc .I'll let you know how it goes!