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Missed two periods, spotting after orgasm

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Caplanation · 13/01/2026 10:39

I have missed my last two periods and I don't know why! My last period began on 15th November as normal. I have been regular as clockwork since I was 11 but in December it didn't arrive! And here we are in January and it's not arrived again!

I haven't had sex recently so am definitely not pregnant. I have had no changes in diet or any other symptoms at all. I am 33 so not anywhere near menopause age.

They say not to go to the doctors until three have been missed, so I haven't (I am still hoping the second will arrive!).

But added to my worries now is that I have bled a little after my last two orgasms. Both have been non-penetrative via masturbation, one about a fortnight ago and the last on Friday night. On both occasions I assumed it was my period, but the bleeding was both light and finished quickly. Not a period. Again, this is totally new. There have been no changes in anything in that area compared to my normal behaviour.

The two things might not even be connected but have had me worried.

I would ideally not like to wait another month to go to the GP. Any advice?

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FieryA · 13/01/2026 10:44

Why wait if you are concerned? Just go to the GP or sexual health clinic.

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