RIGHT! EVERYONE STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING AND GIVE---- OJ ---- YOUR THOUGHTS, PRAYERS AND HUGS

[NotABanana]

Update at 20:17 - No more trifles today. Steves breathing not good and he won't take his meds. DN is coming in morning and said about fitting him with a driver.

Update at 20:28 - Got some mates here, not sure if tonight the night

Come on girls!!

lots of thoughts about your lovely family here.....
i will be up all night at the Moonwalk... thinking of you and Steve....and your adorable children

I don't usually post, but you are all in my thoughts and prayers tonight. You are an amazing woman, and so brave.

Just had another text from OJ.

Her phone battery is going and so is Steve.

Oh NAB

oh god

Wishing you strength xx

OH no

I'll be thinking of oj and co tonight.

Oh dear. Hope it is peaceful for Steve and that knowing that brings you peace, OJ. x

Oh OJ.
I often lurk but don't post as everyone says what I want to say and a lot better than I could say it.

Just want you to know that I am thinking of you all.
x

Thinking of you and your children at this time

She feels crap that all she can do is hold and love him.

She needs us.

will send up a prayer for OJ steve and their children.
so sad. so very very sad.

sending as much strength as i possibly can

OJ going to Boys Brigade display soon, prayers are said and I will be praying for you all. If this is the time, let it be peaceful, dignified and let Steve know how much he is loved, by his family...and cared about by so many people who have never met him (or you) and have shed tears for him.

Thinking of you all .

I don't know what to say except I am thinking of you OJ

all anyone who is with someone at the end can do is to hold and love them.
is there someone with OJ to hold and love her?

Thinking of you all.

Her bf is due back with the children but I am not sure who is there with her now.

If I text her too much does it make the battery go sooner?

if she texts back yes i think so

But holding someone and loving them is the best thing ever, talking and knowing that although they can'r respond, that they are there listening. When my mum died. she asked for a peice of paper and wrote words on it "peaceful now, go now, LOVE XXXX then various names of the people whom she cared about. We still don't know if it was "Go" or "God" but she was ready and knew she was loved. She just couldn't hang on any more Steve will know you are there, he will and he will know he is loved..|XXXX

My thoughts are with you, OJ.

although is it better to be just the 2 of them together at the end?